30-05-2011, 22:03
So he used to be a mate i no its probably a long shot but can you not shame him within mutual friends i have used the heavy hand in the past and did not end up being any better off,does his wife know about the situation if it were me I would hate to think that if I married someone and it was funded under these circumstances it would put a whole outlook on my marriage if not keep the pressure on without any threats good luck