IT'S NOT A WAR

[Nova70]

Many punters are just testing the water when they see a new profile. Stay on it long enough and you might discover its another fake if the photo suddenly changes.

It goes both ways, just like girls like to hear the guys voice to determine if his an agressive person etc

A good point Mike, I may test the water by sending two or three AW emails when I'm interested in a new or newish profile, Strawberry this is not something I would do with an established member with a reasonable amount of genuine feedback.

Yes Sarah I have read and taken in both your own and Strawberry's posts and I do understand what a big problem time wasters/fakes are and you have my sympathy - time is money. I think that the men who contact you over a long period of time are not punters at all simply those for whom your ad in particular or wg ads in general hold a certain fascination, if you've spent a while on forums you will have noticed how many fakers the subject matter attracts, some forums have a bigger problem with this than others lol.