28-07-2012, 20:23
Thanks for the replies!
...Well, so much for the student I "had a good feeling about". When I had finally managed to gather the cash, I emailed her to say that I was ready to try again... and she deleted my email without replying. Somewhat taken aback by this, I waited a few days and tried again... same result. So I ended up booking someone else (and at least this worked out rather better than the Spanish girl: this one was Thai, but spoke English, and all went well).
I had no idea escorts were so unreliable. Or am I just having a run of bad luck? That's two out of my initial three choices that I've had to "write off".
Yes, I've pretty much abandoned my original plan now. So many girls, so little time (and cash)... I guess I am going to be one of those "shag a different girl each time" guys, at least for a while, until I've got through most of my hotlist. At this rate, when I start going back for seconds, they won't remember that I've seen them before!
At least my anti-infatuation strategy seems to be working. I was quite smitten by the first one, and the second, but now that I've seen two more... I'm getting a better sense of perspective. I wish I'd discovered this years ago, a number of unrequited crushes in "real life" could have been painlessly dealt with this way!
...Well, so much for the student I "had a good feeling about". When I had finally managed to gather the cash, I emailed her to say that I was ready to try again... and she deleted my email without replying. Somewhat taken aback by this, I waited a few days and tried again... same result. So I ended up booking someone else (and at least this worked out rather better than the Spanish girl: this one was Thai, but spoke English, and all went well).
I had no idea escorts were so unreliable. Or am I just having a run of bad luck? That's two out of my initial three choices that I've had to "write off".
(13-07-2012, 19:57)Trinity-Belle Wrote: Just relax and enjoy... mix it up a bit if you like, and go and see a girl a second time if you enjoyed.
Remember... the whole purpose of sex for money is that it is casual... you don't have to commit to any girl!
None of us will be heart broken if you don't come back.
Treat it as a treasure huntx
Yes, I've pretty much abandoned my original plan now. So many girls, so little time (and cash)... I guess I am going to be one of those "shag a different girl each time" guys, at least for a while, until I've got through most of my hotlist. At this rate, when I start going back for seconds, they won't remember that I've seen them before!
(15-07-2012, 11:19)curvy crumpet Wrote: Having regular clients is fantastic and you build up a really good rapport with them but there have been times when I have had to cut ties with my regular clients.
But unfortunately there have been times when clients have assumed that I am in desperate search of a boyfriend/husband, have no private life and would be quite happy to welcome them into my private life, assume they are entitled to longer than their booked appointment time.
It is trying to ensure that you respect the boundaries between a client and an escort without it becoming more than just what it is supposed to be.
At least my anti-infatuation strategy seems to be working. I was quite smitten by the first one, and the second, but now that I've seen two more... I'm getting a better sense of perspective. I wish I'd discovered this years ago, a number of unrequited crushes in "real life" could have been painlessly dealt with this way!
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