My first time and the after effects, I have a story.

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I think it is rather lovely that you would consider trying to do something for someone...

But at the same time... it is a little condescending, to be honest.

I would not presume that you can "fix" anything, or even that there is anything to be "fixed".

I picked up this conversation a little late, but was just so utterly astounded by the OP that I had to chip in.

Trinity (quoted) is correct. Wonderful sentiment possibly, but hugely condescending and a little arrogant. I can't believe you think you can fix someone in that way.

I'm sorry your experience was off putting, but there are many brilliant girls around. Do your research, read the reviews, move on and have some fun.