WGs and relationships

[sarahxxx]

I was in a 14 month on/off relationship with a client, biggest mistake of my life. Works for some and does not work for others. One conclusion i have come too is that there is no way I can have a normal healthy relationship while being an escort, just my opinion.

Can I ask please, as these are the questions / problems that I feel people that are looking to get into that situation should be aware of

1. Was he happy with you continuing to work?
2. Did he carry on seeing other working girls?

Did you discuss the above?

I realise that all relationships are different and what is allowed by one couple is seen as terrible by others, this also applies in "normal" relationships (Whatever that means?) I have been in a relationship for 20+years and it has not always been easy but as long as you both enjoy and want the same things in life it can work.

1. My partner is happy with me working but then he is a perv and we also have been swinging since we first met, I am not so sure about sharing him but he seems to prefer watching me with others when we are swinging rather than chasing other women.

2. Although my partner has never been my client as we met before I started working, he has always dabbled and still does. Am I happy about it? not greatly, but I do not get upset about it. I know what he likes and what he is into, he has no interest in the girl herself and just wants to have sex with her, usually young 20-something blondes. He is more than happy to just have the 15 minute quickie, so I know it is meaningless sex. He usually tells me after the event, so I would be more upset if I found out he had and did not say anything.

Sarah x x x