20-02-2012, 16:14
rodtheman37 - tread carefully, chap. For a period of 6 months last year I saw an escort who has an amazing character and personality, but in terms of being physical with me made me feel very underappreciated and pretty useless. Saw her in total about 18 or 19 times (at £150 an hour...), and about half of those times did absolutely nothing physical with her at all. She'd always tout via email if I hadn't got in touch for a week or so, and I tricked myself into thinking that's because she liked me as a person and I would have really been happy to just be friends with her, but I also found myself competing with the feedback she'd had from other people regarding her services and was really disappointed when I didn't get that. After a while, even if I tried to kiss her or give her a shoulder rub I'd be met with frigidity. But kept going back because I thought maybe next time she'll want to do something, and if not - well we're becoming friends, right?
Told her over Christmas that I didn't think I could this any more because I wanted to be friends and that I was coming to the conclusion that she wasn't at all, and she said "But we are friends! I like it this way because it means there are no complications." Then I asked if she'd be happy to be a friend without the physical privileges and got no reply at all. End of the relationship right there.
Thing that hurts is that there was stuff about our time together that you really couldn't fake, I know she liked my company. But I think she found I was an easier person to extract £150 a pop from without any real effort on her behalf. Things I would have let her get away with (cancelling at the last minute) if we were mates, but now I know I was only ever a client to her, make me feel as though as an individual I was very unimportant to her.
Ask her if she'll see you outside of escorting, even if it's just as a friendship, and you will get your answer... Truth hurts but it sets you free and all that.
Serious question, and I don't mind if the answer shows me up to be a fluffy walkover - how many times have you other guys gone to see an escort and had nothing physical happen at all?
Told her over Christmas that I didn't think I could this any more because I wanted to be friends and that I was coming to the conclusion that she wasn't at all, and she said "But we are friends! I like it this way because it means there are no complications." Then I asked if she'd be happy to be a friend without the physical privileges and got no reply at all. End of the relationship right there.
Thing that hurts is that there was stuff about our time together that you really couldn't fake, I know she liked my company. But I think she found I was an easier person to extract £150 a pop from without any real effort on her behalf. Things I would have let her get away with (cancelling at the last minute) if we were mates, but now I know I was only ever a client to her, make me feel as though as an individual I was very unimportant to her.
Ask her if she'll see you outside of escorting, even if it's just as a friendship, and you will get your answer... Truth hurts but it sets you free and all that.
Serious question, and I don't mind if the answer shows me up to be a fluffy walkover - how many times have you other guys gone to see an escort and had nothing physical happen at all?
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