13-11-2011, 11:08
I would like to think times past I have been as logical as Simo in his original post - and I can cetainly see where he is coming from and how his methodology works for him. And to agree maybe some of the things he is talking about are going on in the back of my mind but ultimately for me i go with my gut feeling. i tend to find when I do this in almost any part of my life I committ to things more fully and there is a better result - this rule for me works just as well in punting as in anything else.
The other thing I like to see (and i know this may seem slightly odd) is at least one bit of negative feedback in whatever form. I think often when you see this you can read between the lines and think the woman has told some arsehole where to get off and I like that she has the spirit to do this. And as wallflowers are not my idea of fun this appeals to me.
I have been priviledged in recent years to meet some tremendous women who have honoured me by sharing their time with me so I must be doing something right.
The other thing I like to see (and i know this may seem slightly odd) is at least one bit of negative feedback in whatever form. I think often when you see this you can read between the lines and think the woman has told some arsehole where to get off and I like that she has the spirit to do this. And as wallflowers are not my idea of fun this appeals to me.
I have been priviledged in recent years to meet some tremendous women who have honoured me by sharing their time with me so I must be doing something right.