09-09-2011, 22:06
I'm not sure if I should write this, and I don't want to embarrass anyone.
I know you both via forums and correspondence. Lucy for a few years now and you were very supportive after I had a bad punting experience which all but destroyed my confidence.
Kate, I have only got to know well over the past few months and who has been extraordinarily kind and made me re-evaluate a decision I had made, in light of our friendship.
You both care, It may sound trite, but it colours your actions and in everything you do.
This may be why the rational boundary of paid for sex gets blurred for some men.
They consciously or subconsciously pick up on this and are drawn towards you.
A quote from a TV show that has stayed with me.
One character asks his colleague, " What does it for you then? what really gets the juices flowing, and pushes your buttons?"
After a pause, his colleague replies, "Someone who is non-judgemental"
I know you both via forums and correspondence. Lucy for a few years now and you were very supportive after I had a bad punting experience which all but destroyed my confidence.
Kate, I have only got to know well over the past few months and who has been extraordinarily kind and made me re-evaluate a decision I had made, in light of our friendship.
You both care, It may sound trite, but it colours your actions and in everything you do.
This may be why the rational boundary of paid for sex gets blurred for some men.
They consciously or subconsciously pick up on this and are drawn towards you.
A quote from a TV show that has stayed with me.
One character asks his colleague, " What does it for you then? what really gets the juices flowing, and pushes your buttons?"
After a pause, his colleague replies, "Someone who is non-judgemental"