Boundaries between Escorts and clients

[curvy crumpet]

For me there has to be boundaries as some gentlemen might take the proverbial "piss". I am a service provider in a business even though once the business is out of the way we can get down to the fun. We are here to provide you with that feel good factor during the period you request our time for.

But in saying that I am on "friendly" terms with clients especially my regular gents and for overnights or dinner dates I do provide them with a "special" rate.

The problem is that when a client becomes a friend you have to draw a line, either they are a friend or a paying client. In my private life I would not in a million years consider shagging a friend and the same would go for a client who turns out to be a friend, you can not have it both ways. Either you want to be my friend or my client.

Clients can play very dangerous games and sometimes it can cause a lot of animosity between girls who do not even know each other just because of the say so from a client who might not have gotten his own way.

Hence why I have boundaries and will never cross them.

Hello curvy crumpet and welcome to the forum.

I do agree with you that you do have to be careful etc, but I don't agree with the fact that you can't have sex with a friend. My best friend has also been my FB. He's a wonderful person and our friendship is very secure, which is why we are able to dabble now and again, although I haven't done for some time due to the fact that I'm now doing it for a living and I've not wanted to, but it's certainly not because he is my friend.

I also have some very dear friends that I still meet for bookings. I feel lucky that we have established a clear differentiation between the friendship and the booking and it doesn't seem to make it complicated at all. I think it gets complicated when it is the chemistry that is stronger than the friendship.

Of course you don't have sex with all your mainstream friends, but that is because you have likely known them a long time and throughout your life and it wouldn't be very discreet and likely you would be treading on the toes of other friends. You don't get to your 30s without your friends forming relationships with other people and there does have to be respect there, but this is a whole different ball game, as you met through the sex industry. Well, that's my take on it anyway.

It's interesting how we all deal with things differently.

Apologies my fingers tend to run off before my thinking is completed.

Yes, my regular clients are considered to be special friends. As in we are friends but when it comes to sex unfortunately they do pay.

I think it becomes dangerous when feelings become involved especially when a client is married as at the end of the day once he has had his enjoyment which is a very physical need for a man and some women he goes back home to wifey and the fabulous life they have together. Which ultimately could leave you feeling lonely and empty as they are not prepared to share their spare time with you.

If you ever fall for a client and he wants to see you on his terms when it suits him, ie dinner and sex for free. Don't you think he is getting his cake and eating it?