Swinging

[Jeansman]

Escorting is first and foremost a business transaction. That the guy is there is proof that he finds the lady both attractive in her physical sense, and what service(s) she offers for the money he is willing to pay.
The lady finds the guy's money attractive in that she has quoted a price for a service offered, but may also personally enjoy offering that service herself.
Should both parties have an attraction to each other is a mutually beneficial bonus. I have met some truly lovely ladies on AW, both physically and as personality, and hope to continue to do so for some time. Swinging is based on a mutual physical attraction where no money changes hands.
Most ladies regard escorting as a business, and I prefer this as I know what I am going to get, whereas Swinging is largely full of timewasters who may or may not achieve their aim, regardless of your own aims.
No escorting lady is going to meet clients on a Swinging basis, unless there is a deep attraction that transcends the fiscal considerations.
JM..

The difference between swinging and AW is that swinging is mutual consent i.e. both parties want to have sex with each other, where as on AW the attraction only needs to be one way and the attraction for the Service provider is cash, if anyone tells you different (i.e. that they find you attractive) ask them to meet as a swingers meet i.e. and not pay them.

Guys would be amazed how without the cash in hand their appeal to women vanishes.