are u positive or negative

[Freddo]

Freddo, it maybe that people don't have anything to add to what you've said, or don't want to get into a discussion about it, or maybe want to think about what you've said before responding. I don't think people ignore others deliberately, and if they do, there is normally a reason ie. they didn't see/hear you or they are being bloody minded and following their own agenda!

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I do laugh and smile a lot - for apparently no reason. Once a guy kept asking why I was laughing in bed, and was I laughing at him. I wasn't, I was just laughing cos I was having a good time. Paranoia can make people look at the world in such a weird way!

I see where you are coming from Ann. Thank you for pointing that out to me.
Sometimes it just makes you feel invisable and other times you just shrink away from all aspects of conversation and become a wallflower. I even have clothes that match various wall designs so I can blend in.