being made to feel ashamed

[Freddo]

to be honest it's all your decision. If you offered alternatives then there's not much else you could have done. I've had similar because i've said I won't travel to the other side of York for a fifteen minute meet. I feel bad about it but i'm never going to please everyone.

Thats a joke isn't it I would not expect any one to come to me for less than a hour
I suppose you could have charged him travel time and the fact you had to get ready


But I know its not a joke some punters expect you to move heaven and earth