being made to feel ashamed

[Freddo]

....maybe you should not have said if it was a longer booking it would be okay
as that would make someone feel pretty worthless or you was waiting for a better offer to come along

But Freddo, it's up to us how long and whether we see someone. As Kate says, at weekends and evenings she only takes 2 hour bookings. All girls work differently, and it is for a reason. We all have different circumstances.
We all know Lolo wouldn't turn a client away without good reason, whether it's timewasters, discretion or timing.

Normally girls don't wait for a better offer to come along, as you never know when the bookings will come in. However, if they have someone booked in who then cancels, they can offer that slot to someone else - which is where a punter gets lucky!

He was definitely trying emotional blackmail on Lolo, even if he didn't recognise it. We all get it at some point but need to remain professional and stuck to our guns. We each have our own boundaries for a reason.

When I posted that I was trying to put myself into the blokes head who had phoned
and I did not know of Lolos reasoning not that, that matters
but as I said I was playing Devils advocate

Ann I do think you got the wrong end of the stick hun
I was not slatting or having a go at anyone I have been around long enough to realise that no two ladies are the same
I was not questioning Lolo or Kates or yours or any other ladies boundaries and to be honest I am ever so slightly dissappointed that you would think that I would


But in case you think I was
I am so sorry Ann I you xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx