being made to feel ashamed

[Freddo]

i feel terrible & i dont know why

after the prick who knocked on all the doors trying to find where i was i am now quite cautious about bringing a load of guys in on the same day

as i have already met a few people today, when this booking came in i said no as it was for half a hour i wasnt wanting to attract attention so offered him alternatives times & days & explained why, also added if it were a longer booking fine as the coming & going wouldnt be so obvious

his reply was that i made him feel ashamed that he couldnt afford longer, i have tried to explain its nothing like that & that half an hour later on in the evening or tomorrow would be fine but i cant get him to see it from my point of view

guys have u ever felt like this

girls do u get the same

To be very honest Lolo it would depend on what you actually said.
If you just told him you was finished for the day and offered him different times and days that was okay and he should have been fine with that

maybe you should not have said if it was a longer booking it would be okay
as that would make someone feel pretty worthless or you was waiting for a better offer to come along

Did he know about your earlier visitor who was about as discreet as a bull in a china shop

I have felt a bit strange but you can usually tell if a lady is waiting for a better offer to come along the funny thing is sometimes they phone you back and say I am available now

I think most punters know they are not your only visitors and will understand if you have problems

Sorry I could not totally agree with you this time Lolo

But it is your decision you decide who to see and who not to
he can try all he likes but no is no

I still think you are a nice lady Lolo xxxxxxxxx