19-07-2011, 23:37
You know I had not considered this before, but I really am a bit of a control freak. When use the magic wand, I tend to keep control (at least to start with) and I ask the chap to gently finger me and build up with me so to speak. I have let guys take control of it, but then I am usually telling them how I like it too and let them know when they have it in the right place (lots of praise).
You are right about older chaps being more stubborn though, some have not been rewarded with the power of the wand! lol
You are right about older chaps being more stubborn though, some have not been rewarded with the power of the wand! lol