04-05-2011, 12:44
(This post was last modified: 04-05-2011, 12:46 by English Kate.)
I seem to stumble into everything in my life and this was no exception. I had stumbled into swinging over 7 years ago after breaking 3 years of celebacy. I had tried internet dating but was getting no where fast and my desire for sex was exceeding my desire to be with someone.
A friend accidently let slip that she was bi curious and a swinger and that she went to a club. She said I could go with her if I wanted to. When she left I looked it up on the internet and found swinging heaven. The rest is history.
A couple of years ago a female swinging friend of mine told me she was on adultwork and having a great time. I admit I was surprised to begin with, but then she had never been as fussy over her men as me and I convinced myself it was something I could never do. Around 6 months later my ex stopped my CSA payments and there was nothing I could do about it. The short fall made all the difference and I had exhausted all other lines of making money, so I was close to having our home repossessed.
Initially I looked into adultwork to put up some pictures in the private gallery and maybe write some erotica, but as time went by I kept thinking about actually Escorting. I mean, I did have a high sex drive, I never did feel satisfied and I was single. I dipped my toe in the water and slowly but surely have increased my hours, started touring and have had some of the best sex ever. It's completely broadened my horizons and made me a better person, as I'm much less judgemental.
I love my work and if I could get rid of the deception it would be perfect, but I always had to keep the swinging under wraps, so I'm no stranger to secrets. I just wish it was not necessary. I think my Mum would love my apartment!
I still have the house by the way and am starting to pay off long standing debts, so it has also been a life saver for me and my son.
A friend accidently let slip that she was bi curious and a swinger and that she went to a club. She said I could go with her if I wanted to. When she left I looked it up on the internet and found swinging heaven. The rest is history.
A couple of years ago a female swinging friend of mine told me she was on adultwork and having a great time. I admit I was surprised to begin with, but then she had never been as fussy over her men as me and I convinced myself it was something I could never do. Around 6 months later my ex stopped my CSA payments and there was nothing I could do about it. The short fall made all the difference and I had exhausted all other lines of making money, so I was close to having our home repossessed.
Initially I looked into adultwork to put up some pictures in the private gallery and maybe write some erotica, but as time went by I kept thinking about actually Escorting. I mean, I did have a high sex drive, I never did feel satisfied and I was single. I dipped my toe in the water and slowly but surely have increased my hours, started touring and have had some of the best sex ever. It's completely broadened my horizons and made me a better person, as I'm much less judgemental.
I love my work and if I could get rid of the deception it would be perfect, but I always had to keep the swinging under wraps, so I'm no stranger to secrets. I just wish it was not necessary. I think my Mum would love my apartment!
I still have the house by the way and am starting to pay off long standing debts, so it has also been a life saver for me and my son.
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