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RE: What is your definition of being shy? - abcdef - 06-08-2011
cant get the link to work david
RE: What is your definition of being shy? - SassyAnn - 06-08-2011
(06-08-2011, 04:31)davidseven Wrote: This.
http://women.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/women/relationships/article6740888.ece
It says at the end of the article:
“Lonely men seek companionship. Lonely women sit at home and wait. They never meet.”
I sat at home for 10 years, and if I didn't do this job, I probably still wouldn't be meeting guys. It's too terrifying. So, wholeheartedly understand what those guys are going though. Except the bitterness. They are bitter cos they tried and were rejected. I never tried, so no rejection, no bitterness!
RE: What is your definition of being shy? - davidseven - 06-08-2011
(06-08-2011, 05:43)SassyAnn Wrote:(06-08-2011, 04:31)davidseven Wrote: This.
http://women.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/women/relationships/article6740888.ece
It says at the end of the article:
“Lonely men seek companionship. Lonely women sit at home and wait. They never meet.”
I sat at home for 10 years, and if I didn't do this job, I probably still wouldn't be meeting guys. It's too terrifying. So, wholeheartedly understand what those guys are going though. Except the bitterness. They are bitter cos they tried and were rejected. I never tried, so no rejection, no bitterness!
I agree about the bitterness, an incredibly destructive emotion in general, but perhaps more so if your introspective and shy. I did visit a couple of the American Incel forums, and there was a great deal of hardcore misogyny in their writing and outlook.
Self defeating and bordering on masochism.