In my humble opinion if a lady sent me a pm I would find it not offensive but a nice gesture.
If I recieved PMS I would not take it as a lady was looking for buisness and if she was then I would be secretly smug that she had choosen to PM me, even if she had pmd loads of other punters.
The only thing I do not really like is text messeges as they always seem to come through at the wrong times
Hell CK like Freddo if I got a PM off you or anyone else for that matter, I wouldnt see it as touting unless you said I am doing a special.................. etc etc. Lolo and I had a real exchange of PM's the other evening - we were chatting thats all.
If someone says you are touting and you know you arent, tell them to feck off.
We dont do enough talking these days anyway without some trying to stop it even more!
BTW you can tout to me if you like though
Lol sorry about that little hiccup yesterday. Hicky knows how wound up I get about this matter. This is where some places suit better than others and why I initially liked this place, as I felt I could be myself and not worry about the odd innuendo slipping out (it's second nature for me) and just enjoy having a laugh.
I am a little old fashioned and because I need to be desired I find instigating or touting difficult to do, as it won't necessarily get me what I want, ie to be desired.
However, if someone pm's me then I will always reply and enjoy getting to know that person better. I guess the reason why I'm able to be confident in my work, is because I take it for granted that the person is with me because they fancy me and have no reason to suspect otherwise, whereas on a forum, you are just another person until you are told differently; plus I know there are lots of gorgeous women on here and great characters, so I would never assume that I was top of someones list and it's nice to just enjoy the company.
Having said all that, if there were a topic being talked about on here and there was an obvious similar interest/connection that could be talked about in more depth off the forum, then yes I would naturally pm the person to continue talking about it. That would not be connected with sex though, more like a subject like art or cooking or a place of interest etc. You know what I mean
I sometimes think I'm shyer than what shy Ann was, so I'm glad she has changed her name, as it really didn't fit lol.
I had a split personality - you didn't get to see the shy me!
I like Escorting
but that's escorting as in the actually appointments, all they crap imbetween stops it being a love ha ha
The appointments are great for me because before I was just webcam every minute of the day so it's nice to get out and about, plus i do love meeting new people, best part of the job
(08-07-2011, 21:35)iluvjem Wrote: [ -> ]...best part of the job
So, not the raunchy wanton sex then?!
(08-07-2011, 13:59)SassyAnn Wrote: [ -> ]I had a split personality - you didn't get to see the shy me!
Shyness is a real handicap, I have real problems with it and as for leading conversations thats another story
I am the silent type or I open my mouth and put my foot in it
(08-07-2011, 22:14)Freddo Wrote: [ -> ] (08-07-2011, 13:59)SassyAnn Wrote: [ -> ]I had a split personality - you didn't get to see the shy me!
Shyness is a real handicap, I have real problems with it and as for leading conversations thats another story
I am the silent type or I open my mouth and put my foot in it
well i wouldnt say boo to a ghost im that shy