i just cant belive it lol

[SassyAnn]

Did the Dad say how old the boy is?
There is nothing you can do when someone is texting you. You have no way of knowing how old they are. It's only when you meet, and you do the right thing asking for ID.

[English Kate]

When I first started Escorting I used to ask for face pictures and I was accused of potentially trying to blackmail clients with the pictures and not being a 'real' escort, as I had no right to want to fancy who I see.

I have to say, a year in to stopping this practice (if not a bit longer) I now think that the picture thing was more deceptive than anything, as some people will always look much worse than their picture and others a damn site better. Some people are just not photogenic and it's possible to judge them unfairly with a picture, so I'm glad I don't do that now.

[tinkerbell]

im not to fussed about a picture but i do think filling in the discription on adult workd is a help, and i think it should be mandatory! because people lie about age and race all the time. and i do thinkt hey should have a picture but only like a reg picture like we had to do but just not have it on show to us, just so their discription matched the picture ya know?

[English Kate]

You're lucky if they put an age on there let alone anything else. I agree it would be nice if they did have some description on there. I find that you can sometimes get some idea of what the person is like based on their feedback, but of course ladies are often a little over complimentary and can make them out to be better looking than they are. There are certain buzz phrases that I find reading between the lines tells you more than you think.

[tinkerbell]

im sure people only put good feedback so they will get repeat custom,..which i understand btut as you say not helpfull at all

[abcdef]

alot of times i dont look at a guys feedback

[English Kate]

alot of times i dont look at a guys feedback

I had a 37 year old rugby player make me gush in Newcastle. It was only a half an hour booking, but bloody hell he is going to get good feedback lol. Sometimes it is worth checking it out.

[abcdef]

but dont u like to make your own mind up by the correspondence u have had together

[English Kate]

Obviously if you are able to make contact via phone first then that is best, but I live with my son and am not always able to get into much prior conversation, so anything else is helpful, also some guys contact you via message on AW only and don't have time to get into conversation, so it is reassuring to see they have met others and have reasonable feedback.

I had one guy on Escort Ireland contact me via message and referred to his feedback, which was great as I new he would not be a no show and valued what was said about him. He was really good fun too, as I had expected him to be from the feedback.

I suppose we all deal with things in the way that works for us. I try not to spend too much time on the phone if I can, due to not often being alone, so texts and messages work well for me.

[abcdef]

its not always on the phone texts, pm's