Consented fun

[MR V]

Hi & good morning to you all,

I wasn't sure which post section this was appropriate for so I hope I have the correct one.

Here is the situation which I thought it would be great to get some of your thoughts from both sides of the fence in terms of people seeking services and the wonderful ones that are providing services.

I am an attached male. Me and my long term partner had a conversation about "spicing" things up as maybe we both see that we have one life and we have always been open to various ideas.

Now the thing is, from my perspective, we have a great sex life, obvious as you grow together and certain situations with life that lessens but given that we still try is a good sign of strength in our relationship.

The topic was about how we would both feel if we had fun with a "fcuk buddy" - not very frequent but on occasions. Automatically I thought to myself how would I feel about this, how would it affect her feelings for me? as we both don't want this to end in a bad way.

I guess the bright spot is to look at the experiences we have shared together as we have dipped our toe into the swinging environment with another couple a couple years ago, this was exciting and naughty fun at the same time but this also provides some challenges when one of us isnt attracted to the other one if you know what I mean. I think swinging is great if you are both strong enough in your relationship and make sure that expectations are managed properly.

On the other side it is a lot of hard work and time invested just to find a nice couple that you can get along with and chat to and that's only the start.

Maybe the option is that we find a friend with benefits which gives us more freedom to search for the right fit.

I am interested in trying an escort personally - It provides convenience and to be discreet enough. I know for a fact that it wouldn't be hard for her to find someone suitable too.

Keen to hear your thoughts and any similar experiences you all have.

Thanks in advanced guys and girls.

Mr V x

[Nova70]

Fuck Buddies, Friends with benefits do such people really exist ?, it's a potential emotional minefield. I'd keep it all on a business footing, if both you and your partner really are comfortable with the other paying a professional then go for it, plenty of couples advertising on AW as well, I admire the liberal and enlightened attitude you and your partner seem to have when it comes to sex and wish you luck with your Bohemian experiment.

Sadly if I had suggested a similar arrangement with the ex Mrs Nova I fear I'd have woken up the next day to find her wearing my testicles as earrings.

[niceguy27!!]

I'll be your misses fuck buddy