Advice for coping with a relationship with an escort?

[Jakey]

Hi Jakey, First things first does your GF want to continue doing the job because I'm not clear about that, if the answer to that quetion is no then you have to give her all the support and help she needs to find another job. But if the answer to that question is yes then it's you who has to deal with your problems about what she does, I think most of the women who have responded here are in relationships and their partners don't seem to have any problems with what they do, I apprecate that you worry about her safety but if she wants to carry on all you can do is encourage her never to forget that it should always be her priority and never to become blase about the risk.

The fact that you have never been involved in this world means you can't get your head around the fact that it is just a job like any other and I really don't know how to get that across to you but I assure you most of the wgs who have mentioned their personal lives to me do have partners who are well aware of what they do.

She doesnt like the job, but at the moment its a secure income for her and she feels confident in it which is just like anyone in any other job I guess.
She is pursuing other avenues in the long term by doing a degree etc, and I will support her in doing so to the best that I can. 

I do understand that its just a job technically. But even so I see a huge difference between this job and any other job when it comes to relationships, as it completely crosses over into very fragile areas. Even if she were a stripper, I would understand and respect the fact that it is just a job a lot more, but when random men have come into our home, into our bed that we share and had sex with my partner without me knowing, it makes it very difficult to see it as just a job. The only difference really is that the men give here some notes, which for me it doesnt really eradicate those negative emotions that come up naturally when your partner is engaging with others sexually.