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[inexperiencedpunter]

Is it me or is this website primarily populated by camera performers/users? I thought on adultwork's official forum there would be more punters and escorts on here

I was planning to ask some punting related questions but I am not sure if this is really the right place to ask them. I know ukpunting might be more geared up to that but they banned me and if I go on there I am likely to get into a flame war compared to here where it seems much more tolerant.

Also from a male perspective I really can't see the appeal in the use of cam girls. The whole reason I punt is for that visceral male to female sexual interaction, interacting with a real human female literally there "in the flesh".

I don't understand why when you can look up so much realistic looking porn on the internet that you would pay somebody to take their clothes off on a webcam whilst you sit there having a wank.

From a female perspective obviously it is a lot safer, my last couple of punts have been at the WG's address and I have often wondered how vulnerable they feel with strange men visiting and knowing their addresses. Although I think for some women there is also a sense of arousal from feeling slightly vulnerable. It wouldn't be a huge stretch of the imagination to think that a dangerous punter could easily pin them down and strange them there and then in their own home.

What are your thoughts on the matter?

[xKatieBabyx]

You had a lucky escape from ukp. Nothing of value to be found in that forum anyway. There are a few escorts here, not so many punters but we're still quite small and unknown (which is good as you don't get the asshats other forums attract.)

People enjoy webcam for different reasons to an in person Meeting - they may want to explore a fetish or fantasy they don't feel comfortable sharing with an escort, or they may be working away in a hotel and want some no strings sexual fun, or they may simply enjoy the sexual rapport with a woman they could never have sex with, as most camgirls are not escorts and this is the only way they share themselves. Many guys who enjoy webcam feel the same confusion over why people visit escorts. It is horses for courses

Welcome x

[sarahxxx]

Welcome to the site

Is it me or is this website primarily populated by camera performers/users? I thought on adultwork's official forum there would be more punters and escorts on here

This is NOT an official Adultwork forum, just a forum relating to all aspects of Adultwork, nothing dodgy about it.

I was planning to ask some punting related questions but I am not sure if this is really the right place to ask them. I know ukpunting might be more geared up to that but they banned me and if I go on there I am likely to get into a flame war compared to here where it seems much more tolerant.

You do not say why you got banned? But you are better off out of that cess pit. Ask away, there are people on here that may be able to help you, or like any forum, you could do battle depending on the nature of the question. But have fun....

I don't understand why when you can look up so much realistic looking porn on the internet that you would pay somebody to take their clothes off on a webcam whilst you sit there having a wank.

I do not view cams nor do I look at porn, my guess is that guys who enjoy viewing girls on Webcam enjoy the interaction with another human, which you do not get with porn.

From a female perspective obviously it is a lot safer, my last couple of punts have been at the WG's address and I have often wondered how vulnerable they feel with strange men visiting and knowing their addresses. Although I think for some women there is also a sense of arousal from feeling slightly vulnerable. It wouldn't be a huge stretch of the imagination to think that a dangerous punter could easily pin them down and strange them there and then in their own home.

All escorts are vulnerable when dealing with a client in a 1-2-1 situation, no matter where you are, but I really do not hold with your idea that girls would get any form of titillation / excitement / arousal from the situation.

Experience tells you how to deal with clients and you get a sense of the person you are dealing with from the way they are on the phone and on the initail meeting, of course people can change.

For all you know the female you met may have security in place, maybe her partner was in the house or she used some other form of security / protection, unbeknown to you.

Hope that clears a few things up for you.

Sarah x x x

[inexperiencedpunter]

Great reply. I didn't realise this website was small, I thought being the official adultwork.com forum it would have been buzzing with activity!

Anyway regarding your points on why people webcam, from a punter's perspective it seems like webcam punters are just too afraid to meet somebody in person. Escorts are perfect for no strings sexual fun.

The thought of sitting down masturbating to somebody on the other side of a screen sounds like sexual torture to me, total anthemia. I would like to meet one of these webcam punters and ask him if he really is afraid to actually meet a woman in person.

Most people's first punts are awkward, but it really is amazing to have that intimacy with a female human being that you just can't get from the other side of a screen. I can't see what would be confusing about meeting a real life woman to suck your dick Excuse the vulgar language but that kind of thing is surely a huge turn on for most normal blokes.

[inexperiencedpunter]

Welcome to the site

You do not say why you got banned? But you are better off out of that cess pit. Ask away, there are people on here that may be able to help you, or like any forum, you could do battle depending on the nature of the question. But have fun....

I do not view cams nor do I look at porn, my guess is that guys who enjoy viewing girls on Webcam enjoy the interaction with another human, which you do not get with porn.

All escorts are vulnerable when dealing with a client in a 1-2-1 situation, no matter where you are, but I really do not hold with your idea that girls would get any form of titillation / excitement / arousal from the situation.

Experience tells you how to deal with clients and you get a sense of the person you are dealing with from the way they are on the phone and on the initail meeting, of course people can change.

For all you know the female you met may have security in place, maybe her partner was in the house or she used some other form of security / protection, unbeknown to you.

Hope that clears a few things up for you.

Sarah x x x

Hi, thanks for answering. Your reply came up after I had typed my last one.

I didn't think escorts had partners :confused: That must be a complicated relationship. Also the thought that she might have her boyfriend in the house whilst I want to be the main man is anthemia :yuck:

Since you work in the industry could you shed any light on what types of measures an escort can take?

Also what kinds of things would you look for in a phone conversation to arrange a meeting? How would you tell if they were good/bad from a brief interaction?

Edit: Also I didn't realise it wasn't the official forum, does adultwork not have an official forum then? I think to reduce the confusion you could perhaps refrain from using the adultwork theme? Anyway it seems a good forum none the less.

[Ana_X]

Since you work in the industry could you shed any light on what types of measures an escort can take?

Also what kinds of things would you look for in a phone conversation to arrange a meeting? How would you tell if they were good/bad from a brief interaction?

They wouldn't be very effective security or screening measures if the punters were clued in on them.

[Nova70]

If I didn't know you were full of shit IP I'd think you sound more than a little scary, bareback, the vulnerability of wgs and what warning signs they look out for, but you are full of shit so don't waste your time here.

[kinkydirtybitch]

I smell troll

[inexperiencedpunter]

If I didn't know you were full of shit IP I'd think you sound more than a little scary, bareback, the vulnerability of wgs and what warning signs they look out for, but you are full of shit so don't waste your time here.

Get a life you idiot.

[lara]

If I didn't know you were full of shit IP I'd think you sound more than a little scary, bareback, the vulnerability of wgs and what warning signs they look out for, but you are full of shit so don't waste your time here.

Get a life you idiot.

Lol....well that's the pot calling the kettle black!