A lot of frustration

[Strawberryblonde]

.... so he sent a text to get the room number and she should have given it to him,

It really does show what a nob you are.....

As he had been asked to call her that is what he should of done, where do you get off on she should do what he wants? I have many guys requesting I do anal, are you suggesting that I should do it if that is what they want, regardless of me not offering that? No wonder I think your an idiot

It is not for you to judge on the rights and wrongs of why she has asked him to call and whilst she may not be able to see him, she may ask him to confirm something in the local area to show that he is there. Or in certain circumstances, the hotel room may not be that easy to find, so not something that easy to explain in a text.

I have worked in flats where I do make sure I can see the person before giving the door number and I have no shortage of customers. And whilst I do not vet them as to if I wish to see them or not, if I did that would be my choice to do so.

Sarah x x x

Your twisting my words as usual, of course the likes/services list should be respected but if the wg in question has a set procedure which may incude eyeballing the client before giving the room number then she should clearly state that on her profile not drag punters along and then spring it on them, bbk did make the call but she didn't awnser, and I say again what would a call at that late stage really have told her.

If once in the room a wg decides she's not happy with the client for some reason such as a stroppy attitude or poor hygene then she's perfectly at liberty to say so and end the meeting, but how would seeing a client from a distance be of any benefit to her where issues like that are concerned.

Eyeballing for me was to make sure the person was there, I had quite a few call or text saying they were around the corner, and then disappear. I had no way of telling if they were in the vicinity or pulling my leg. Never had someone no show after I started doing that...........I also wanted to make sure the person didn't have a mask on - I had an armed robbery a few years back and if I'd looked at the person before letting them in I'd have seen they were wearing a mask or at least had chance to see their face. It can also help protect against anyone who might try and turn up with their mates. None of this is fool proof however it's all stuff that can minimise some of the risks.

Sighting a client doesn't however give any indication of how you'll get along, or tell you whether he's had a bath or not.

I always found great benefit in explaining the procedure at the time of booking, the client can then either accept it or have the option to not go ahead before anyone has reserved time or travelled.