A lot of frustration

[Ana_X]

this kind of thing has been tried but as soon as punters become aware of it the wg concerned will see a big drop in business.

Careful nova, you're sounding a bit UKP there. My own personal outlook is that I'd rather see a handful of clients for the right reasons than masses of them for the wrong. The lady in question has set up her own system to make herself feel secure, nobody has the right to tell her to ignore that and give the prospective client what they want. The client has no right to her service, just as she has no obligation to carry out any pre agreed service if she gets even the slightest inclination that things don't feel right about someone.

And you think her system is tough? Here's mine (granted I'm not an escort, but I still allow people to meet me alone) .

1) I get a call (witheld numbers are rejected) asking if I'm available, we have a LONG discussion about what does NOT go on here, we discuss MY personal limits (no touching of me, no nudity on my part, no intimate body contact or any form of sex) and then his personal limits (for example, no knives, needles, scat), what his primary interest is in terms of fetishes/activities etc.

If his primary interest is focused around him having a wank once he's been 'subjected' to activities agreed upon - game over. Nice chatting and all, but not the client for me, no appointment offered.

If he isn't concerned about jacking off and understands that a session with me is about the experience of my capabilities as a Dominatrix - we proceed.

2) He is then given my bank deposit details and told the value of the deposit to be made within a certain time period. If it's a same day booking he's given no more than two hours, if booked in advance (by weeks or months, both aren't uncommon) he's given 24 hours. If the deposit isn't made within the time period given, I text him and tell him the appointment is cancelled. Any further attempt to reschedule an appointment will require full payment up front.
- If he says he doesn't use online banking, he is instructed to pay in branch over the counter.
- If he says he can't or doesn't want to do that he is told an appointment will not be offered.
- If he asks to pay by paypal, amazon giftcard or any other means it is simply rejected and no appointment offered

3) Once a deposit is received the appointment is then written in PEN in my diary (previously erasable pencil) and scheduled to go ahead.

4) Day of the appointment he is instructed to call TWO HOURS prior to the scheduled time to confirm he is still attending. If he doesn't call at all the deposit is kept as he has already been told it is non returnable.
- If he calls and says he cannot make the appointment but wants to reschedule for X day at X time, he is instructed to make a further deposit by X time. The the first and second deposit will go towards the total cost of his session.
- If on the day of the rearranged appointment there is no confirmation, the appointment is cancelled and deposit withheld. It will not be transferable again.

5) If the client confirms at the specific time given to him he is then given a postcode and told to park in the area then call back at five minutes to appointment time to give him walking details to location.
- If the client is traveling by public transport he is told which rail station is nearest and told to call at ten minutes to appointment time to get walking details from the train station.
- If the client say's they're traveling by TAXI, they are instructed to go to a nearby landmark and call at ten minutes to appointment time for walking details to location.


So, why all these hoops to jump through? Because I make the rules, that's why. And any potential client willing and able to oblige my protocol is a client with respect for how I operate is the type of client I want to work with.

Those who don't or won't filter themselves out.