How would you handle this situation? Refund or not?

[sgreenloves]

So I'm pretty much a newbie to the whole escort thing, I've been doing it for a few months now. I've had my first bad experience with a customer (Well, gave them a bad experience, I suppose) and wonder how anyone else would deal with it since I had no bloody idea!

He wasn't the best customer I've ever had, showed up half an hour late, stank of BO and had tried to make many bookings without even having conversations with me, like I woke up once to find a booking had been made for 6am that morning. *sigh*

But anyway, he finally got here, all was going well until we started having sex. Even though he wasn't particularly big it was quite painful going in, I can imagine since I wasn't relaxed (trying to block the stench out). Of course, turns out I was bleeding, not a horrific amount but a very visible amount. I can't imagine it was from a period since the pill I've got has completely stopped them, I wasn't bleeding before and I can't find any blood now that I've cleaned up and some time has passed. He was pretty disgusted by it, which is of course, understandable. Not everyone's cup of tea and I realise some people really, really hate blood.
He then suggests that I just suck him off, which I begin to do for about 5 seconds but then decides that he's just gonna wank himself off since it would be quicker (we still had 15 minutes left!!). He complained a teeny bit about it not going how he wanted it to go but still seemed to be in rather good spirits but left about 15 minutes early.
He then texts me saying that he felt robbed, he came here for sex and didn't get it and it was terrible service. He also said that if I was having a period then I should say that I wouldn't be working and that he could have just stayed at home and had a wank. (Of course, if I had been on a period I would never work).

Not REALLY sure how to react to it. Obviously he wanted sex, he paid his money and I couldn't give it to him so it's all on my end, so should I have given him the money back? But at the same time, he didn't clarify anything that he wanted in messages, only that he wanted to come over. I gave him a bj before we started having sex which he seemed to enjoy, he sucked my boobs and came on them, and I would have finished him off myself if he'd let me. And I had no idea that my vagina would do that! So should I have given his money back?

[Strawberryblonde]

First thing I'd like to say is you need to be pointing smelly clients in the direction of the shower and not continuing until they are clean.

Not a clue about the blood although my experience is that menstrual blood has a different quality to that of blood from a cut, could it be that you cut yourself shaving?I have had one of those "where on earth did that come from, never to be seen again" experiences where there's blood but no obvious source on either person, but only ever once.

If you did do your best and he finished without complaining it's a bit late to say something afterwards.

If he was that stinky however you should have sorted that issue out first, so you could start on an even footing which may have meant that you were more relaxed then none of this may have happened.

[LeilaClairemont]

You could maybe offer him a discount on a second visit (if you actually want that) or give him some off his money back (maybe 25%) if he's really that upset about it but clearly stating that he should have said something then there, that you are making an exception for him. In the end it's more economical to loose a bit of money once then to get a bad reputation in the punter scene and miss out on bookings.
HOWEVER this guy seems to have been very disrespectful towards you. How on earth can he think it's OK to be intimate with a stranger (!) in the physical state that he was?
Btw I decided a while ago not to go ahead with bookings when it just doesn't feel right. I tell the guys (didn't happen often luckily) that both of us want to have an amazing time and that he's prepared to spend a lot of money but that I just don't believe that we really clicked and I'm sure he feels it, too. No man has taken offence by that so far, quite the contrary. They are thankful because sometimes the chemistry just isn't right and they are happy I give them an easy way out. I give them their money back (normally they tip me for that) and everyone is happy without loosing their face.

[sarahxxx]

If a guy has left the building then there is no need to give a refund, and as above if you were happy to see him again you could offer him a discount.

Sarah x x x

[Pixie]

You could offer him a discount if you wanted to see him again but I myself would give future bookings with him a miss.

The point that he was so adimant to wank himself off instead of you doing it or giving a bj is enough to say that there was no chemistry there and the likely hood of any chemistry forming for a second booking is slim.

Also, turning up stinking of BO shows a lack of respect. If he had of asked to have a shower beforehand then no problem. How can he expect you to be into the session if all you can smell is BO?

I can understand him being annoyed if he thought you were in your period. As soon as the blood was apparent to you then you should have said that he was a bit "big" and that's where the blood came from. Whether he believed you wasn't something you could do much about.

All in all, I wouldn't worry yourself over it too much.

X

[alex]

How would he have reacted if it was you that had body odour? It works both ways, if you're going to have intimate relations then. He should have made sure he was fresh or showered , as for refunding him partly, thats your call if you intend on seeing him again.

[hornygirl1991]

If you are bleeding randomly down there, can I suggest going to the doctors and getting it checked? Bleeding can be a symptom of some morbid problems xx