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10-02-2015, 22:11
(This post was last modified: 10-02-2015, 22:50 by Scot2014.)
First post here, thought i would say hi.
I divorced a couple of years back, nothing major just nothing in common anymore. Anyway been dating but never seem to find the all important spark, disappointment after disappointment. I decided to visit an escort from AW locally. Met her at her door was totally nervous. The strangest thing the minute i saw her i thought wow she is lovely, we chatted and i thought got on really well actually strangely felt a connection with her. Lay next to her for over an hour was only supposed to be 30 minutes but she didnt mind. Decided to see her again, only this time it feel even more special, afterwards lay chatting wrapped around each other. Felt so nice to be with her. A few days later i invited her to mine as friends which she did, i made us a nice meal and we watched a few movies. She stayed over and we ended up in bed together. I drove her home the next day sat and had a coffee at hers, i pined for her after i left.
Now my problem is i feel like i have totally fallen for her, i think she likes me too but she doesnt want a relationship. I offered to help her quit and move in with me, offered to support her with training to do something else. I know i havent known her long but from the minute i met her i felt a spark, i havent felt like that in years if ever.
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(10-02-2015, 22:11)Scot2014 Wrote: First post here, thought i would say hi.
I divorced a couple of years back, nothing major just nothing in common anymore. Anyway been dating but never seem to find the all important spark, disappointment after disappointment. I decided to visit an escort from AW locally. Met her at her door was totally nervous. The strangest thing the minute i saw her i thought wow she is lovely, we chatted and i thought got on really well actually strangely felt a connection with her. Lay next to her for over an hour was only supposed to be 30 minutes but she didnt mind. Decided to see her again, only this time it feel even more special, afterwards lay chatting wrapped around each other. Felt so nice to be with her. A few days later i invited her to mine as friends which she did, i made us a nice meal and we watched a few movies. She stayed over and we ended up in bed together. I drove her home the next day sat and had a coffee at hers, i pined for her after i left.
Now my problem is i feel like i have totally fallen for her, i think she likes me too but she doesnt want a relationship. I offered to help her quit and move in with me, offered to support her with training to do something else. I know i havent known her long but from the minute i met her i felt a spark, i havent felt like that in years if ever.
If I was you I would not ask her to quit and instead accept her for who she is. In my view (and that is just my opinion) there is nothing wrong with being an escort, but we are all different in our views.
Even if you cannot have a full on relationship, you can still see her and enjoy her company, and maybe with time she will change her mind....Maybe make her see what she is loosing by not being with you....There is always hope...
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Thanks for the reply, i dont know what to do in scared if i keep seeing her i will like her all the more and get hurt. My own fault i know, its not just physical thing she is an absolutely lovely person.
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You are welcome. I would advise you to continue seeing her, as otherwise you may later regret it for giving up now, which is a really nasty feeling (I know it from own experience): the dreaded 'what if'. Of course there is the risk of getting hurt, but my life has taught me that it is a risk well worth taking...
Like an author whose name I cannot remember said: 'It is a risk to love: what if it doesn't work? Ah, but what if it does!'
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Does she want to quit?
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10-02-2015, 23:27
(This post was last modified: 10-02-2015, 23:29 by Scot2014.)
She did say she thought about it but not when, mentioned retraining. I really like her but been hurt alot in the past and scared of getting hurt. I didnt expect to fall for her.
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(10-02-2015, 23:27)Scot2014 Wrote: I really like her but been hurt alot in the past and scared of getting hurt. I didnt expect to fall for her.
I know it's not easy but I would still persevere if I were you...I was also hurt a lot in the past but I have learned that it is just part of life, and sooner or later you will find someone special....The thing is that this lady may be someone you will end up with, and if you decide to stop seeing her, you will never know....
Like Friedrich Nietzsche said: 'That which does not kill us, makes us stronger'. That has definitely been my case.
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