scammer

[myplan]

this is a word of warning for you all.
i know i have had some bad meets before, but i have also had some good ones


however, i met the lovely holly spencer a few months ago

http://www.adultwork.com/ViewProfile.asp?UserID=1549804

after a few meets, great times were had. we agreed the sugar daddy option. with a fixed sum every month with a couple of meets a month. phone calls, txts. great i thought.
after the 1st month, where i even brought items off her wishlist to see her in, for her to use. each meet was cancelled with holly being "sick, family matters" even though she was still doing meets.
hmmmmm, ok i thought, i would give her one more try. so the amount was paid again.
guess what happened, the meets never happened. the phone calls, texts did though.
now everytime i try to contact her, i get rude response, blocked on adultwork. blocked on email. changed her phone number.

you are warned

[sarahxxx]

She seems to have a lot of positive feedback for somebody to be scamming.

it would seem extremely foolish for you to have paid her the second month not having had any benefit from your first months money. If I was in a bar and had paid £5 for a glass of wine and it not been given to me, I would not be paying the bar-person for another. I am sure your arrangement would have been for more than £5 - maybe I am just tight?

It would be interesting to hear her side of the story.

Sarah x x x

[myplan]

i agree with the positive feedback, that is why i was surprised it happened.
as for paying the 2nd month. we all know some women can be convincing and able to wrap you round the little finger.
yes i was duped and made a fool of. as a punter, it is never a good thing to have that feeling.
even thinking with the idea of retiring from the punting world

[Simon]

You can place a dummy booking to leave a "feedback-only" comment in her feedback.

I'm in a somewhat similar situation myself: I helped out an escort (with good feedback) by paying in advance for a series of bookings that she then failed to deliver (she needed the money for a deposit on an apartment). I lost £900.

Unfortunately, in my case, there's a complication: she's a single mother with suspected cancer (a tumour in her ear). Under those circumstances, I didn't have the stomach to pursue it. If she pulls through, she might yet find a nasty surprise in her feedback in a year or two.

I think many escorts don't like being in a situation where they are obliged to see a specific client. Even experienced escorts get resentful. In your case, she should never have offered that deal if she can't handle it.

[myplan]

yes i agree, she should not have offered.
i understand that if someone dont want to see you they wont, but you should never play games. we as "clients" show respect to the ladies, we should get the same back rather than being rejected in a nasty way.
we have feelings as well.
i dont mean to label all ladies the same as i am currently speaking to one who is fantastic, but the bad 1s give the girls a bad name.

as for posting "feedback-only" i would rather let sleeping dogs lie as 1 bad feedback in the amongst the good aint gonna make much difference. although if you do look very closely, there is only 1-2 members who have seen her more than twice. which shows something

as for me, i dont need the money as im not short of a bob or 2, i just dont like the games. i dont get it in my private life so i shouldnt get it when im having fun.
yes i am giving up being a "client" after 15 years of punting.

[sarahxxx]

we as "clients" show respect to the ladies, we should get the same back rather than being rejected in a nasty way.

Unfortunately, as I have always said, there is good and bad people on both sides of the escort business, as there is in amy line of work.

Female escorts are plagued with idiots and people that are not nice, we encounter far more of the idiots, usually by phone, than we do the good clients. This is something that we have to put up with on a daily basis, hence the reason why some can seem a little jaded when dealing with people on the phone.

Saying that, once a guy is a client, they get treated completely diferently by myself if they turn out to be one of the good guys. Thankfully I get very few of the idiots turn up for an escort booking. Although I have had a few of the good clients turn into idiots after a while, but very few.

This is not the sort of business you should be paying in advance for services "Pay As You Enter" is the norm and anything other than that is a risk. And as it is risky, like all forms of gambling, you must be prepared to lose.

I am sorry this has happened to you and I would put it down to a bad experience and move on.

Sarah x x x

[myplan]

yes i have moved on from this experience. she is not worth the time of day
i am just warning others of this scam, being good to my fellow man.

i am dealing with 1 nice lady at the moment, and she has regained my faith in the fun world. however, she will be the last girl i see.
with a few bad working ladies out there, i am not wasting my time or money in trying to find the good 1s

it will be a sad wave to the punting world for me. i should really post my punts over the years to say thank you to those girls i have met

[Simon]

I understand how you feel. In my case, I gave it up for several months, until I found a very nice girl who I've now seen twice and will see again.

You say you've found someone you like: you could carry on seeing just her until you feel better. Normally I'd advise against seeing just one girl (too much danger of infatuation), but now I've broken my own advice. I think it's OK as a confidence-boosting measure for those in our situation. Just be careful, and be ready to start seeing others when you find yourself becoming too attached.

[myplan]

ive become a regular with girls before. where i have only seen 1 girl at a time, i like that connection, that fondness of each other. when its time to move on, then i do. so no danger of that
we shall see, time will tell if i gain enough faith that it wont happen again