Inspiration

[English Kate]

If you are an escort, what inspired you to start doing it? If you are a client, what inspired you to start seeing Escorts?

In general who or what has inspired you in life?

It's really weird, but in the throws of impulsively decorating my living room, I realised that the inspiration and motivation has come directly from my apartment. I have growingly preferred to be at the apartment to home and this is in part due to the apartment being far more 'me' than my home is, which is ridiculous really.

Hopefully by the end of the weekend I will have addressed this abit in my living room, although it will be difficult to re-furbish it without making waves, so that might have to be a more gradual and less impulsive change.

Have you found yourself being influenced or inspired through Escorting or seeing Escorts in ways that are not directly obvious?

[Pan]

At the start it was for the buzz/rush, something to get the blood going as an alternative to, say bunji jumping. It also helped that it helped with my raging sex drive I had at the time (not that it's changed much) and feeling that I wasn't enjoying sex at home much either.
Now it is more or less a complete turn around. I'm a tightly strung and highly stressed individual, not through problems or my situation, it's just the way I am. Therefore along with the gym, visiting escorts is me time. Nothing in my head, a place to drift off and relax. Then, back to real life bright and happy, well, happy for me.

[MrSmith767]

I was at a low point in my life, just into middle age, my main career aspiration had fallen by the wayside. I had no real ideas about my life.

I was on the internet, and stumbled on the AW site. I saw a pornstar offering escort services, and decided to try and live out my ultimate fantasy.

[Tom30]

I was at a low point in my life. Stumbled upon some webcam website, then found AW camgirls.
Eagerly wanted to shag those girls, i asked if she'd like to meet and if i had to id pay her money for sex, she declined saying i need an escort for that, i thought wtf is an escort? Looked into it, realised... i thought omg they must be prostitutes judging by the profiles.

Found one i liked, met up with her, loved it!

All my life i believed id never pay for sex, being in the frame of mind like most people that its only for men who are ugly, fat, old, low confidence and stuff, and that the girls must be minging and such.

Tell you what, i wish i had paid for it when i was 18 instead of spending a total of £20k on a car over 2 years which got me laid to only 12 girls, 4 of which were girlfriends. I couldve shagged 400 girls for £50 each back then (when i was 20-22) as thats all i ever wanted - a shag, thinking the car would help in getting laid. Couldve shagged a different girl every 2 days. Biggest regret of my life :p

[English Kate]

Thanks for your contributions guys. I can totally relate with some of your comments. I find quite a few of my clients come to me for 'me' time and enjoy being pampered a bit, as well as the destress thing.

I have likened our bodies to a coil, that can get wound up and wound up and without any 'me' time it can become dangerously wound up too tight. My contribution to their lives, gently unwinds the coil, releasing tension and putting a spring back into their stop. Of course it does the same to me too, so it's a win win situation.

Tom, I guess at least you got some money back on the car when you sold it? Good to hear that you discovered the stereo types are not true though, I think especially in this day and age of the internet and the fact that often people move away from their home town, often we are in isolated situations, but with the world at our fingertips, that has enabled a whole new world of prostitution on all levels.

[ladyinpink]

For me..l want to start an animal sanctury, its my dream

[SassyAnn]

That's great LadyInPink (LIP). Welcome on board!
Do you have any animals now?

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I started camming by accident and then for fun! It was a great way to get back into the swing of things having been celibate for 10 years. The recession had hit by then and I was whinging to one of my cam friends about lack of contracts. He suggested I started camming for money. I said "No, can you get paid for doing this?", and apparently, yes, he said you can make really good money from camming. So by the next day I was signed up on AW. I 'met' some lovely people on cam and they asked if I would do any escort work. It took me a little while to get my confidence up (I did a bit of swinging to get myself prepared!), and finally took the plunge a year ago this week!

[abcdef]

being in the frame of mind like most people that its only for men who are ugly, fat, old, low confidence and stuff

i admit this is what i thought as well, i have found it's totally nothing like that, i could count in less than one hand the amount of guys who were a bit overweight 95 % of them have had medium to athletic bodies, iv met more personal trainers through escorting than i ever would if i went to a gym

[English Kate]

I've found the men to generally be more attractive than when I used to go swinging. I used to spend ages cherry picking the best with swinging out of thousands of not so attractive men, whereas the standard of guys who use Escorts is far better.

[English Kate]

I will admit that my reason for starting Escorting nearly 2 years ago was due to my ex stopping paying CSA and deciding to give me a 3rd of what I had been given previously. He was totally within the law as he is not living in the UK. It seems that now he is contributing £1. My sons future is worth £1 to him. Smack bang in the middle of his exams, he has added to our financial pressure yet again.

Yes I know I can make that money back in an hour, but... does he have any idea what I am doing in order to make up the money he is no longer giving me? Does he realise that by taking away the little support he gave us he is making it harder and harder for our son to complete his education?

He says he has tried to communicate with me, via calls, emails and letters and I have recieved none. What kind of psychological game is he trying to play? Some things never change! I know I'm wasting my emotions on him getting upset, but it's our son that he is hurting, not me and I hate him for that. I've never hated someone so much in all my life. People ask me why I stay single!!!

I ask myself, if I had not started Escorting, where would our lives be now? We would not be still living in our home. I would have gone bankrupt. My son would not be in college as he would have had to find a job, whatever it was. Maybe we would both be on the dole? That's not the start in life I want for my son and I'm damned if I'm going to let that happen.