Erotica

[English Kate]

Sorry Kate, I should have ended that with a very personal opinion of 'as much'. Wrist slap understood.

lol I'd slap it again if you wrote that too. You just don't need to compare ladies to each other in public. Write it in a private message direct to the lady you admire, then it is special, without upsetting other people. We all work hard to look good and having someone else put you down in order to make someone else feel good, can have a real damning affect, to the point of cancelling work, because the lady feels deflated. It's not an easy job to do. We may all look confident, but we still have our bad days and demons and where I'm not asking you to big everyone up, just don't compare or make out that one lady is better than all the rest.

This advice is for all men on here by the way, not just you and actually to an extent it applies to the ladies too. Flirting does not have to be at the demise of someone elses feelings.

Feel free to smack me if you see me doing it too by the way.