"I'm a dom guy are you a good sub slut?"

[kitty]

Anyone else getting a sudden increase in these so called dominant males...??

They're pitifully hopeless at whatever it is they're trying to do, generally thinking they can come into chat for 20 seconds call me a whore and tell me to spank myself. Then usually try to make me deepthroat objects I can barely even get my bloody jaw around. Maybe a few too many men have been flicking through 50 Shades...?

It's getting annoying now. I'm happy to participate in sub sessions, I bloody love it when it's done with a bit more finesse then "choke slut or i'll shuv it up ur ass"

[Mistress_Babalon]

Gross...

[iluvjem]

yeah really Id love genuine Dom men but they are hard to come by. So many just use it as a term to be abusive without understanding any of it!

[Ana_X]

So many just use it as a term to be abusive without understanding any of it!

Yup, the same can be said about the term 'Mistress'.

[kitty]

Ah, the amount of times I've had some complete stranger turn up in free and call me Mistress, most certainly a pet peeve of mine! Then usually followed by "I'm a small dicked loser, turn my cam on bb to see". At least it's a little more creative then "Hey switch my cam on it's new and I want to see if it's working"

[HornyHeidiBush]

I do think some guys totally misinterpret the punter/provider dynamic, and assume that it is ok to disrespect and disregard the girl, regardless of whether they are claiming to be a dom or not.

[iluvjem]

So many just use it as a term to be abusive without understanding any of it!

Yup, the same can be said about the term 'Mistress'.

That goes to service seekers too! I am glad i started offering Mistress services but so many guys ask for it but have no idea what it is or what the even want and then dont want to talk about it and find out what they want. Or they use the term mistress for anything that isn't vanilla

[Ana_X]

I do think some guys totally misinterpret the punter/provider dynamic, and assume that it is ok to disrespect and disregard the girl, regardless of whether they are claiming to be a dom or not.

Totally this. Just this week I had a direct chat caller who was on the phone for seven minutes, all fine and dandy and he left happy. That same night I had a call on my bookings phone from a heavy breather, I hung up on him and promptly added his number to my phonebook as 'heavybreather281112'. Between Tuesday and last night I had twenty eight calls from another heavy breather calling from a witheld number, creepy sad to*ser. Before logging off direct chat last night I had a repeat call from Monday's happy wanker, telling me he had a confession to make, it was him with holding his number and grunting down the line.

What did I do whilst he was telling me this on direct chat? I googled the number I put in my phonebook on Monday, found an add he placed online in June last year selling his Audi A3 VERY handily the advert told me he was located in Bradford and there was even a map with his locale. I warned him there and then if he ever called or contacted me again (I've blocked him every way possible on adultwork now) I would contact his local police station and provide his mobile number, the advert and his AW contact information if necessary, as I found this information on him.

We may well be adult industry workers but we are NOT here to be abused/harassed, some may say 'it comes with the territory' or 'it's par for the course' being in this industry. Bollocks. I for one take no shit from anybody.


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[Trinity-Belle]

My phone drops calls from withheld numbers. I think most reasonably modern phones can?

[Ana_X]

My phone drops calls from withheld numbers. I think most reasonably modern phones can?

My bookings phone is a £10 job, can't even alter the ring tone on the thing but it's just a point of contact for as and when needed, no bells or whistles on this thing and dropping withheld numbers isn't something it can do either. I do use it to take my direct chat calls on when I'm out and about and sometimes for whatever reason the AW number shows up as withheld, so I need to answer the calls and if I don't get the prompt I hang up again.