Can we discuss *anything* on the AW e-mail system?

[blue-satin]

They only discussed it...

"The Home Office says the plan is key to tackling crime and terrorism. The Information Commissioner has warned that strict safeguards must be put in place if plans to monitor the calls, emails, texts and website visits of everyone in the UK are implemented. "

I believe they cannot , not at the moment.

I think you need to check the BBC I heard yesterday from someone that skype as said they will exchange information via text/calls...
Bye for now
sorry just found this http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/technology-19012415
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[Sexxy-Claudia]

Thanks for the post.

[curlytots]

I think as long as you make it clear it is FANTASY and you don't condone it, then that's different. I mean, where do you draw the line, if you're going to start policing sex talk then it'll end up like a site governed by Mary Whitehouse.

[Lolly]

But then most of NO taboo chat is against aw rules. dnd if aw are to go threw profiles with no taboo chat then profiles will be going as some gilrs are extrenme and no holds barred..........yes you pulling them in as they cant get that off most chat lines but there is a fine line with some things.

Yes fantasy is fantasy and i am all for that i think its more the age play with very young thats a concern!

[Lolly]

I think as long as you make it clear it is FANTASY and you don't condone it, then that's different. I mean, where do you draw the line, if you're going to start policing sex talk then it'll end up like a site governed by Mary Whitehouse.

most guys that want no taboo chat like to know your into it if you start saying its fantasy and you dont condone it you know 9 times out f ten you lose them and you are condoning it by going threw with the chat in the first place.

I am more on about extreme taboo aw do not condone chat about minors, animals or rape.....................or so they say but for now most are getting away with it.

[curlytots]

It can really vary though. I have one guy that said to me 'can we have a fantasy no-taboo chat', I said yes, and then he wanted to talk about me being a space alien and me fucking him! Also, people want you to be 'mummy' and breastfeed them... etc.

I have put on my profile that it is only FANTASY and any one referring to real life situations will not be accepted. I've replied to e-mails before saying - if you are referring to real life, then you can forget it. I may have lost bookings, but c'est la vie. I'm not interested in REAL sickos.

[Lolly]

It can really vary though. I have one guy that said to me 'can we have a fantasy no-taboo chat', I said yes, and then he wanted to talk about me being a space alien and me fucking him! Also, people want you to be 'mummy' and breastfeed them... etc.

I have put on my profile that it is only FANTASY and any one referring to real life situations will not be accepted. I've replied to e-mails before saying - if you are referring to real life, then you can forget it. I may have lost bookings, but c'est la vie. I'm not interested in REAL sickos.

lol, i have not had the space alien yet! loving that one. mine has been more agent 007 lol

for me they do not count as taboo chat ..... i think we are all well aware of what the extreme, no holds barred no taboos chat is.

Even if you say its fantasy for some to then go on about having it away with a minor is in my head just mucked up! Also against aw rules

[curlytots]

As long as money is there to be made, people will do it... Simples.

Your own comfort line is your own, as is everyone elses.

What is against AW rules is uploading illegal content... Not discussing fantasy scenarios in bookings. How could AW even have any knowledge of what you're discussing in a booking made to your mobile phone for example?

I do know AW has stopped members joining from the Philippines due to the fact there were reports of underage performers using webcams. So, they are willing to make a move when someone does something seriously illegal like that; fantasy chat is just that really...

I have one guy that calls me up and wants me to kill him over the phone. I've killed him about 4 times now but he keeps coming back from the dead. Do you reckon we're allowed to take zombie bookings? LMAO.

[Trinity-Belle]

The problem I have with it (and some here are going to shoot me down for saying it) is that no matter how you try to dress it up or excuse it, it is still talking about something which is not only illegal (reall, who gives a shit about that!), but actually really very, very sick. And if people need to work through experiences from their own childhoods, then the right place to do it is with a suitably qualified counsellor, not a working girl.

The problem is, I think, that girls participating in age play does offer tacit approval, which is tantamount to condoning it.

And the real problem which stems from that is that these "fantasies" are fed and reinforced.

We all know how sex works, especially those of us who escort. Anyone who knows even the smallest amount about psychology knows how strong sexual reinforcement is, and whether girls know it or not, that is exactly what they are doing with a guy no matter what the situation. Probably more so on cam or chat than in real life, actually.

So by speaking about these extreme taboo subjects, girls are (perhaps without realising it) reinforcing the ideas in guys minds.

Now I am not suggesting for one minute that all these guys will then go on to abuse children in real life... but I'm also not going to say that guys who do that would have done it anyway, with or without extreme chat.

I'll bet my very last dollar on the fact that the vast majority of guys in prison for doing that very thing will have a history of using porn and sex lines to feed their fantasy.

And if girls are doing it, then they need to realise what it is that they are doing.

If you think I am talking out of my arse, read this article:

http://defenseforsvp.com/Resources/Profe...is2006.pdf

... or one of the many like it, which shows a clear and irrefuable link between child porn and paedophilia, and an absolute and demonstrable link between guys who use child porn (which includes direct chat) who do actually offend against children.

[Lolly]

The problem I have with it (and some here are going to shoot me down for saying it) is that no matter how you try to dress it up or excuse it, it is still talking about something which is not only illegal (reall, who gives a shit about that!), but actually really very, very sick. And if people need to work through experiences from their own childhoods, then the right place to do it is with a suitably qualified counsellor, not a working girl.

The problem is, I think, that girls participating in age play does offer tacit approval, which is tantamount to condoning it.

And the real problem which stems from that is that these "fantasies" are fed and reinforced.

We all know how sex works, especially those of us who escort. Anyone who knows even the smallest amount about psychology knows how strong sexual reinforcement is, and whether girls know it or not, that is exactly what they are doing with a guy no matter what the situation. Probably more so on cam or chat than in real life, actually.

So by speaking about these extreme taboo subjects, girls are (perhaps without realising it) reinforcing the ideas in guys minds.

Now I am not suggesting for one minute that all these guys will then go on to abuse children in real life... but I'm also not going to say that guys who do that would have done it anyway, with or without extreme chat.

I'll bet my very last dollar on the fact that the vast majority of guys in prison for doing that very thing will have a history of using porn and sex lines to feed their fantasy.

And if girls are doing it, then they need to realise what it is that they are doing.

If you think I am talking out of my arse, read this article:

http://defenseforsvp.com/Resources/Profe...is2006.pdf

... or one of the many like it, which shows a clear and irrefuable link between child porn and paedophilia, and an absolute and demonstrable link between guys who use child porn (which includes direct chat) who do actually offend against children.

Amen!! I dont always explain things properly but you hit the nail on the head and i agree 100% with all the above.

The guys do feed on it with age play, we all like the money but i think some need to draw a line with the extreme taboos.