Escort + Client = Pretty Woman

[Emily of Halifax]

Two ladies off my local forum have proudly announced this year on that forum that they got married this year to ex clients.
They are both still working, but one has said on the forum that she would not want her now hubby to see escorts again.


Lucy

Is T***(Dont like mentioning names from elsewhere) still working Lucy havent noticed her round for a bit and she has gone from the escort listings

[DivineMissG]

Wow... I find it really incredible that two people can meet in this game and end up on the 'white picket fence' side of things... It's quite beautiful and they must have something really special going on to be able to do that.

When I am home in Oz again, I won't be escorting, and shall have a white picket fence of my own... But I guess that's different... I've always known that was going to happen.

I guess Lucy has answered the question here... Yes, it can happen. Good for them and I hope it works

[English Kate]

If he booked an escort he would out of my door quick smart!
We came in to this world doing it the way we did it then as just Lucy and Hubby.
Lucy7 started playing solo due to reasons stated on my profile.
He loves me shagging other guys, he gets off on it.

I am meeting one guy today and one tomorrow.
I am restricting my meets for these days as he is around this week and not away.
I have turned down good meets with good guys for today and tomozz as so not to be out of the house too much while he is here in Leeds.

I however do not even like the idea of him with another lady.
It would screw with my head.
He has had his fair share in the past and now he is with me he says he is the cat that has got the cream.
He has at times suggest that we meet with another couple, in fact he pushed it at one time as he has started to want to move the goal posts.

If he was to actively seek out another lady either paid or unpaid I would not be able to handle it.
So if you know he has been up to something tell me!!!!

Lucy

Not heard a dicky bird Lucy, so all is fine on the home front, as far as I know.

I'm glad you have written your sitution though, as this is the only scenario that would work for me other than equal monogomy.

[Freddo]

This is a bit deep for me but
If the lady is to carry on escorting then you would have to expect the man to carry on punting
It is not always just about sex its the variety of different ladies from different backgrounds that you meet whilst punting

Most punters would never approach a escort whilst they were out and about

If you introduce her to your friends and family the chances are they would not mention knowing her unless they were single.

I think if caught out you need to be honest with friends and family

Is that fair?

She is Escorting to pay the bills and likely spending time with clients that she is not sexually attracted to, but trying to make ends meet. Then he is selecting women that he fancies the pants off and spending the money she is trying to make to have a better life.

The difference is, she is not doing it for her own sexual gratifciation and if things were different would likely be happy with just him, or they could swing together.

I don't see how it is fair?

Sorry Kate I was taking it literally from the Pretty woman film as we have talked about other scenarios before

In the film Richard Gere was loaded so she would have had no need to work to pay the bills

Usually if a man is well enough off to see a lady and fall for her he would have had to have seen her a fair few times and some of the bookings would probably have been overnight so he would have been relatively well off

Or am I barking up the wrong tree completly. Where would he get the money from to visit I am just a bit confussed

[spud]

I went out with a girl I met as her client back in the 90's.

I din't have a problem with it, but we separated as she insisted on getting blind drunk every time we met. In the end it wasn't her work that drove me away, - all I wanted to do was for once, have sex with her sober would have been nice!

[beauvoir]

er... a girl i know is dating a guy she met on cam.

Lost a paying client, but is a very happy cat. It certainly does happen. If there is a physical and sexual connection then why not?

xx

[Strawberryblonde]

It's worked so far for me.

[Pixie]

Me and my other half got together when I was an escort. He knew all about it and had no problem as he knew that my escorting was just work. He got me, and my clients got the professional side of me. He had no problem with commuting to just me and no one else. He wasn't a punter however and I'm sure he hasn't seen an escort before so its not a pretty woman scenario.

I did swap what type of sex work I did in the end over to being a dominatrix instead. Mainly I did this as it was much more my style and was something I was already into (alot more than escorting), but also because I wanted to only give "that" part of me to my other half. That was my choice and my partner had no say in it all.

For me, our relationship works alot better for me as there is a clear divide. I am sub for my owner and so he gets to have sex with me as well as alot of other kinky play, and my subbies get my dominant side where we can play and explore in a competly different way.

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[Nova70]

I've never had any confusion over this issue I punt because I can have sex with many attractive women, sure there are several I've gone back to again and again but not because I've fallen for them it's because the standard of the service was so good. Now if I fell for a woman back in the real world and she then revealed she was an Escort would that bother me ?, no because I view it as just a job like any other.

[annabelle]

My understanding of the Pretty woman film message is that a 'mega' rich, older guy falls for a younger, beautiful woman with lots of options and who wants to better herself though education, leaves the 'street world' and stays with him forever trying to build a decent life.

I do not know any street girl to have met such a guy but I know several girls who worked for a while from the safety of flats who met some guys who were quite well off, older and unfortunately left them after getting what they wanted from them.

Surely there are a very small percentage of girls though who stayed with the guys and live happily together: we are all human, need the same constant love and know we are not young forever.