Escort + Client = Pretty Woman

[sarahxxx]

Is it only a film, does it ever happen?

Clearly a client is likely to fall for a girl more than the reverse, but it has happened and they move in together but will it work? I have never known it work, but I have only known it happen a few times.

The odds are stacked against it being a success and there are two points of view and needs

Male Client:

Will he be happy to live with a girl who carries on working having sex with other men?
Will he trust her? After all, she has moved in with him and may fall for another client

Female / escort:

Will she be happy for him to carry on punting?
Will he promise not to still be a punter and can she trust him not to?
Is she looking to give up work?

The above are the main points that I have found discussed before and that cause the most problems, the other is the relationship itself.

How do you introduce the girl to your family?
If the girl works locally how do you feel about meeting clients when you are out and about?
How do you cope should friends / family find out about her?

It is not an easy relationship to get into, mine works because we were together before I started to work. That does not mean that we have not had our "moments"...

Any relationships need to be based on more than sex, but the sex has to be good.

Sarah

PS Girls, never trust a man with a hard on, he does not know what he is doing and can not be held responsible for his actions. make sure you de-spunk him before he leaves the house

[DivineMissG]

Like Sarah I was with my partner well before I started escorting...

Even before I started working, our relationship was never easy... In fact good relationships rarely are, I find. If we didn't already have such a solid foundation, I really don't think we could have made our relationship work when escorting got thrown into the mix.

Each to their own, I know, but I really can't imagine a real life 'Pretty Woman' situation ending in a long-lasting relationship. Relationships are generally hard enough on their own without all of the extra 'baggage' (for lack of a better word).

[digger1967a]

PS Girls, never trust a man with a hard on, he does not know what he is doing and can not be held responsible for his actions. make sure you de-spunk him before he leaves the house

That is so TRUE, we poor men have only enough blood to work one bit at a time!

[Lady_Lust_XXX]

Is it only a film, does it ever happen?

Clearly a client is likely to fall for a girl more than the reverse, but it has happened and they move in together but will it work? I have never known it work, but I have only known it happen a few times.

The odds are stacked against it being a success and there are two points of view and needs

Male Client:

Will he be happy to live with a girl who carries on working having sex with other men?
Will he trust her? After all, she has moved in with him and may fall for another client

Female / escort:

Will she be happy for him to carry on punting?
Will he promise not to still be a punter and can she trust him not to?
Is she looking to give up work?

The above are the main points that I have found discussed before and that cause the most problems, the other is the relationship itself.

How do you introduce the girl to your family?
If the girl works locally how do you feel about meeting clients when you are out and about?
How do you cope should friends / family find out about her?

It is not an easy relationship to get into, mine works because we were together before I started to work. That does not mean that we have not had our "moments"...

Any relationships need to be based on more than sex, but the sex has to be good.

Sarah

PS Girls, never trust a man with a hard on, he does not know what he is doing and can not be held responsible for his actions. make sure you de-spunk him before he leaves the house

Very eloquently put OP. The quotation I know of is : An erect cock has no conscience and will f**k anything. I think they have the same meaning.

There is also the point that if escort takes up with client that leaves a vacancy for escort/lover. Once a cheat always a cheat. Personally I dont know anyone who has cheated to ever go back to a monogamous relationship. Sad but true.

It would be my worst nightmare if I was ever to 'pick up with a client' but if i did (and its defo not going to happen) but I could never trust him not to visit another escort. And it has been debated on here and the majority of escorts (if not them all - just cant remember) said they would not be happy if their SO/partner was to visit another escort.

[Freddo]

This is a bit deep for me but
If the lady is to carry on escorting then you would have to expect the man to carry on punting
It is not always just about sex its the variety of different ladies from different backgrounds that you meet whilst punting

Most punters would never approach a escort whilst they were out and about

If you introduce her to your friends and family the chances are they would not mention knowing her unless they were single.

I think if caught out you need to be honest with friends and family

[sarahxxx]

If the lady is to carry on escorting then you would have to expect the man to carry on punting
It is not always just about sex its the variety of different ladies from different backgrounds that you meet whilst punting

Every situation would of course be different, as in every relationship. What works for one couple is not right for another. It would depend on what basis the couple got together, after all, the girl is doing a job, the guy would just be out spending money on his own pleasure.

Sarah

[English Kate]

This is a bit deep for me but
If the lady is to carry on escorting then you would have to expect the man to carry on punting
It is not always just about sex its the variety of different ladies from different backgrounds that you meet whilst punting

Most punters would never approach a escort whilst they were out and about

If you introduce her to your friends and family the chances are they would not mention knowing her unless they were single.

I think if caught out you need to be honest with friends and family

Is that fair?

She is Escorting to pay the bills and likely spending time with clients that she is not sexually attracted to, but trying to make ends meet. Then he is selecting women that he fancies the pants off and spending the money she is trying to make to have a better life.

The difference is, she is not doing it for her own sexual gratifciation and if things were different would likely be happy with just him, or they could swing together.

I don't see how it is fair?

[lucy7]

There is someone I know who has met a guy not a client.
He knows what she does and does not like it.
I think she will quit soon as to have a life with him his more preferable than carrying on and jeopardising her relationship with him so she says.

Two ladies off my local forum have proudly announced this year on that forum that they got married this year to ex clients.
They are both still working, but one has said on the forum that she would not want her now hubby to see escorts again.

I came in to solo escorting by a very weird way.
I was only going to do it once or twice as Lucy7 just to see what it was like.
I was just Lucy and Hubby at first you see.
Look what happened ....................... whoops!

Lucy

[English Kate]

There is someone I know who has met a guy not a client.
He knows what she does and does not like it.
I think she will quit soon as to have a life with him his more preferable than carrying on and jeopardising her relationship with him so she says.

Two ladies off my local forum have proudly announced this year on that forum that they got married this year to ex clients.
They are both still working, but one has said on the forum that she would not want her now hubby to see escorts again.

I came in to solo escorting by a very weird way.
I was only going to do it once or twice as Lucy7 just to see what it was like.
I was just Lucy and Hubby at first you see.
Look what happened ....................... whoops!

Lucy

Lucy I already know the answer to this in part, but does your husband book Escorts for himself?

If he does how do you feel about it and if he said he wanted to would it bother you? Would that perhaps change the dynamics of what you are doing?

[lucy7]

If he booked an escort he would out of my door quick smart!
We came in to this world doing it the way we did it then as just Lucy and Hubby.
Lucy7 started playing solo due to reasons stated on my profile.
He loves me shagging other guys, he gets off on it.

I am meeting one guy today and one tomorrow.
I am restricting my meets for these days as he is around this week and not away.
I have turned down good meets with good guys for today and tomozz as so not to be out of the house too much while he is here in Leeds.

I however do not even like the idea of him with another lady.
It would screw with my head.
He has had his fair share in the past and now he is with me he says he is the cat that has got the cream.
He has at times suggest that we meet with another couple, in fact he pushed it at one time as he has started to want to move the goal posts.

If he was to actively seek out another lady either paid or unpaid I would not be able to handle it.
So if you know he has been up to something tell me!!!!

Lucy