Infatuation/Lust/Love - How do you differentiate?

[English Kate]

I met a lovely single guy tonight, who is from Newcastle. He says that his work takes him all over the UK and he's b been single for a couple of years now, but isn't in a position to start dating, as he never knows where he will be tomorrow. He looked a bit like Gary Liniker and by God was he good at oral. I'd happily see him again and there was certainly nothing 'wrong' with him or 'sad', he's just not wanting to muck anyone about.

Some guys have very good reasons for seeing Escorts and not dating. I know another guy who is lovely and single. He had a very good and fulfilling relationship, but it came to an end through natural causes. He chose to to bring up his kids and concentrate on them and not look for someone else. I don't see anything weird or sad about that either. He's not wanting a relationship and he doesn't want to muck people about, to me that is something to be praised.

These are the kind of guys that could possibly slip through the net and become more meaningful, because bonds can be forged, but of course they come with their own set of problems and the odds are against you, but it is possible.

I'm sure there are many other reasons that are not sad that single guys use Escorts.