Help - ideas needed!

[SassyAnn]

OK, this guy rang again today. He booked for 6pm then kept ringing and asking to come earlier. Then sent me a text
Hi gorgeous. Can't wait to see you. I'm gonna be completely under your control xxx.
I thought that was a bit odd for someone who had chickened out, but hey.
So I asked him to go to my local store and buy me a packet of cigarettes.
He rang when he was close by and I told him where to come. I answered the door, he stuck his head round the door and then said "I'm sorry, I've chickened out". Gave me the fags and left. He hadn't even come through the front door.

He looked in his 40s, average to large build, buzz cut hair- blondish I think. Didn't look scared or sound nervous.

A few minutes after he'd left, I rang him and asked if he had actually chickened out, or whether I wasn't his type. He said 'A bit of both. You don't look as though you would be dominant enough'.

I've said I won't take any more of his calls, and he understands that.
Do you think this sounds genuine, or someone has sent him on a mission to find out my address?