Adultworker who makes an appointment then lets you down

[Strawberryblonde]

There are ladies out there that will give negative feedback if a person phones to cancel before the booking takes place.
I would not give a lady negative feedback if she gave me a reason for not showing up by phone or email. If she contacts you before or even after the booking thats okay.
I once sat in a hotel car park for a hour waiting for a lady who was sitting down the local A&E
I knew that because she texted me the following day. I did not give her any sort of feedback
you need to give people time to respond

I have only given negative feedback once and that was after I had found out that a client who had arranged an overnighter had prebooked 2 other escorts and then on the afternoon of the booking made his choice and given the rest of us the excuse that he had to attend the funeral of a colleagues son. Not realising that the girl he had seen had left him positive feedback for the evening.

But if a lady accepts a booking and does not give you advance warning that a booking can not take place for whatever reason she should get negative feedback it is just manners and courtesy.

How can we expect clients to respect us if we do not give respect in return.

I'm the same negative feedback is something I only leave if I think the person makes a habit of booking then cancelling, or has behaved out of turn in the lead up to the cancelled booking. Something like oodles of emails or text messages asking lots of one line questions, over what should be a simple booking.

Quite often I'll leave neutral and word it carefully so ladies can read between the lines and make their own minds up. If the cancellation and MO appears genuine I just simply delete the booking and move on.

My profile is quite clear on how to make & confirm a booking, and I always ask a person to let me know if they know they can't make it before this time. The number of people who say "Yes, yes I'd never let you down, never not let you know" who then disappear into the ether is quite high, to the point where I say "Please don't say those things, it only invites bad luck!".

Back to the point sure it will be annoying to turn up to find the lady not answering her phone. The only times in the last few years I've not been able to answer my phone was when I'd been victim of a robbery by a client the previous evening and the police wouldn't let me use my phone. One client didn't receive the quick, discrete as possibly could be text I'd managed to send and got as far as parking his car before realising something was amiss.

The one hour before idea is a good one, but sometimes it is possible to be still with your previous client (I like at least 1 hour ideally in between but sometimes I might overrun slightly, or the client may be late/need to move the appointment back a bit and with that leeway why not?), or be doing something else(I've had Drs, nail, hair appointments one hour before a booking). If someone wants to contact me to say they are setting off I usually clarify that it doesn't mean anything if they don't get an immediate response.

I've also had days when text messages have been delayed and not received them until 4-5 hours later, one weekend 48 hours afterwards. In those cases one guy assumed the appointment was off, and I sat there thinking he'd not bothered to confirm(phone signal was good) and thus wasn't attending. Not heard from him again.