08-06-2011, 23:52
Hi Dazza,
I agree with Gina, have a chat with the girl that tickles your fancy. Let her know it's your first time and chat about each others expectations.
If she hasn't put it on her site, see if she will talk through what happens when you arrive. I tell my guys that I will greet them at the door and let them come in and shut the door prior to welcoming them with a hug and kiss. I then take them into the kitchen and I'll get us both some water and we can have a chat before going upstairs to get the paperwork out of the way and have a shower. Communication is key to helping someone feel comfortable.
I will normally start off with a massage for guys I haven't seen before, it helps me to read their body. For first-timers, it also helps you relax and get used to a stranger touching your skin.
If you don't feel comfortable ie. the place is a dive or the girl isn't as described, then make an excuse and walk away. If your gut is telling you something isn't right, then it probably isn't.
If you've done your research, feel at ease with the girl and communication flows well, then there is a good chance you will have a fabulous time.
Good luck and have fun!
I agree with Gina, have a chat with the girl that tickles your fancy. Let her know it's your first time and chat about each others expectations.
If she hasn't put it on her site, see if she will talk through what happens when you arrive. I tell my guys that I will greet them at the door and let them come in and shut the door prior to welcoming them with a hug and kiss. I then take them into the kitchen and I'll get us both some water and we can have a chat before going upstairs to get the paperwork out of the way and have a shower. Communication is key to helping someone feel comfortable.
I will normally start off with a massage for guys I haven't seen before, it helps me to read their body. For first-timers, it also helps you relax and get used to a stranger touching your skin.
If you don't feel comfortable ie. the place is a dive or the girl isn't as described, then make an excuse and walk away. If your gut is telling you something isn't right, then it probably isn't.
If you've done your research, feel at ease with the girl and communication flows well, then there is a good chance you will have a fabulous time.
Good luck and have fun!
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