Advice for coping with a relationship with an escort?

[sarahxxx]

@Jakey

I am confused as to what you are looking for or what help you think people can actually give you.

If your looking for a couples point of view then I am part of a couple but possibly the wrong part as you may or may not want the view of my OH.

He is a perv, he enjoys nothing better than watching me have sex with many other men and has done since we first met, he was 21 I was 20.

Does he enjoy me working as an escort? Yes & no, being a perv he enjoys the thought of it and he likes the fact that I earn good money from it, rather than keep taking money from him.

So what does he not enjoy about it? He doesn't like that he can not watch.

So on to your problem:

You have found out that your partner is having sex with other men for money.

Your first problem is that she lied to you about it, that is a trust issue and is much the same as any male / female finding out the partner has cheated on them or even that the husband (in most cases) has paid for sex with an escort

The answer is simple get over it or move on.

Taking that you don't want to move on then what you should be doing is talking to your girlfriend, not be on here talking about it, we are not psychologists, but there are many here that could offer you a few private 1-2-1 sessions to help you work through your problem and help you understand the relationship between punter & escort.

Sarah x x x