Pregnant by punter

[Maria]

I think the ex story is a good story to tell. If you can bring it in a way that it was an accident, but you broke up and you totally don't want to see him anymore or even talk about him.
Because... you found him in bed with someone else.

Then people will understand you and probably won't ask about him anymore.

If you want to keep your baby, then keep it!
I don't think there is any right or wrong here.

Just follow your feelings.

If others don't approve..
It's so hard to ignore, but it's the best thing to do.
You live your life, not theirs.

The father, I think that I'd do the same thing as you do. Don't tell him.
Unless I really really feel that I got to tell him and that I can tell him about it.

Some men will freak out and demand for an abortion because a baby could ruin their own lives and totally ignore your feelings that you have for your baby.
What doesn't know doesn't hurt and won't hurt you!


I'm married and doing webcam.
We wanted to have a child and we did.
I had some very hurtful messages on adultwork from men on there.

Most of my family and friends don't really know what I do for work.
Those who did know where happy for us and don't really mind that I'm a webcam model.

But some comments can really make you feel upset. At some moments it was so difficult. Also some men were so twisted. They can look at porn and that's ok. But as a mother working as a model is totally wrong? It was for girls and mothers shouldn't be doing any dirty stuff anymore?!?!?! They should just be a mum...
Yeah, and then you can come to us and complain why your wife doesn't want to have any sex with you anymore and that justifies you cheating on your wife... Weirdo's!

I even got someone trying to change me into a Christian like him. He stopped messaging me when I asked what he did on Adultwork as a good Christian and if he wanted to pay my bills for when I'd stop working as a model.

You can pm me if you'd like to know more about how it is to do the webcam while being pregnant.