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[sarahxxx]

I think as usua the whole debate is subjective and we can only go on what has been said

There is:-

1. The way spklors saw it, which we have heard
2. The females version of events, which has not been told
3. What realy happened....

It would seem that spklors was desperate to see this girl and rather than just moving on to another, blames her for his desperation and ultimate frustration. As already said he could simply have booked with another girl and chosen not to wasted further time he values so highly. unfortuanrtely it was not to be this time and now as others have said, may not happen in the future should he wish too following his neg feedback.

We do not know who the female is so can not see if she has a good reputaion / feedback and this has not been provided. there may of been good reason for her to simply ignore the email request as we are not privvy to the contents of what she read. Personally I rarely bother to repy to emails as most are meaningless and ask questions relating to what is on my profile.

I do however understand his frustration of not getting a response, but if the lady in question has read your message and not replied then take the hint, move on. If you do not it is then you that is wasting your time not her.

Sarah x x x