Guys really adamant about feedback NOT being left

[F3rm4t]

Yes it does...thanks for clarifying for me.

I'm interested in how webcam shows can turn out to be just chat...I can see girls in group using the live thumbnails just sitting there chatting and I do wonder how they get away with it! Maybe it's easier for the girl to just sit and chat if she isn't using audio. Or perhaps I just attract the guys who only want me to get my clothes off!

I wouldn't say it is always a case of getting away with it. There are some girls who are good fun in a show sense and others who are interesting in other ways. For me it is a case of the right one for the mood. Sometimes I am just passing time whilst waiting for something to finish at the office...

Whether it says something about me or not I don't tend to get my kicks out of the voyeurism. I need to get my head engaged before anything can be sexually interesting, whether it is cam or in person.

For example the tea and ghost session would never have worked because I could not engage with the woman in question, although she was physically attractive. I guess I was just to polite to stop her in mid flow :-)