Hi, this is my first post and I guess it's a bit of a weird one. To cut to the point, I'm 25 and I've done a tour of duty in Iraq and three tours of duty in Afghanistan with the para's. Without sounding like I'm playing a violin for myself, basically the first two tours of Afghanistan were pretty heavy in terms of front line combat, then after after too many close shaves, I made the third tour my last.
The stress and the things you see on the battlefield effect people in all different ways. Some guys I fought with have been completely fucked up by the experiences, others have brushed it off and just got on with their life on civi street.
Now for me, I've seen a lot of shit.... shit you read about in books and see in films, some really bad, some really good, and overall i thought, and still think that I'm a better person for them experiences. But this is now where it's going to sound stupid.... since coming back, I seem to have developed premature ejaculation. I've never had this problem until my third tour where I ended up in a few situations where I thought "this is the end of the line..."
When I came back, the first thing I obviously wanted to do was grab my girlfriend and lead her off to the bedroom, and when I did, it literally lasted 10 seconds. I didn't really think anything off it, but the next time we had sex it happened again. After it happening a third time, I started getting a bit paranoid about it and that seems to have made it worse. This went on for a while, and obviously my girlfriend wasn't getting satisfied and after a while she left me, and I know the whole premature ejaculation had a lot to do with it.
I can't work out if it was just a one of thing that just knocked my confidence and as a result turned it into a reoccurring problem, or if in someway combat has effected me in an unusual way.
I've never seen an escort before, and basically I'm thinking about getting one for a couple of hours to see if I can get this problem sorted.
Is this the type of thing that an escort is just going to laugh at? I'm 80% sure that this is just all in my head and is a confidence thing, which is why I'm thinking that if I get a pretty hot escort who understands the situation and I can just go for it without being paranoid about it then it will sort itself out...
Anyone got any advice?
The stress and the things you see on the battlefield effect people in all different ways. Some guys I fought with have been completely fucked up by the experiences, others have brushed it off and just got on with their life on civi street.
Now for me, I've seen a lot of shit.... shit you read about in books and see in films, some really bad, some really good, and overall i thought, and still think that I'm a better person for them experiences. But this is now where it's going to sound stupid.... since coming back, I seem to have developed premature ejaculation. I've never had this problem until my third tour where I ended up in a few situations where I thought "this is the end of the line..."
When I came back, the first thing I obviously wanted to do was grab my girlfriend and lead her off to the bedroom, and when I did, it literally lasted 10 seconds. I didn't really think anything off it, but the next time we had sex it happened again. After it happening a third time, I started getting a bit paranoid about it and that seems to have made it worse. This went on for a while, and obviously my girlfriend wasn't getting satisfied and after a while she left me, and I know the whole premature ejaculation had a lot to do with it.
I can't work out if it was just a one of thing that just knocked my confidence and as a result turned it into a reoccurring problem, or if in someway combat has effected me in an unusual way.
I've never seen an escort before, and basically I'm thinking about getting one for a couple of hours to see if I can get this problem sorted.
Is this the type of thing that an escort is just going to laugh at? I'm 80% sure that this is just all in my head and is a confidence thing, which is why I'm thinking that if I get a pretty hot escort who understands the situation and I can just go for it without being paranoid about it then it will sort itself out...
Anyone got any advice?
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