18-11-2011, 12:43
Pro - It allows me more time to get to know them, get inside their heads and find out what really makes them tick, because for me sometimes a client will hold back certain things until the second/third/forth session. I'm not an up my own ass domme nor one of the psychics which seem to be advertising constantly saying they will learn you inside and out on the first meeting - that's pure and utter bollocks. The more I see a client the better it gets.
Con - I don't mind that they get attached to me, that's par for the course, it's when they see me four or five times then decide we're friends or in a D/s relationship and they don't need to pay any more. WRONG. I am the one who decides if I want to take on another sub, it's not for a client to dictate this to me. If he does - he's gone - because he's shown his colours and doesn't get it.
Con - I don't mind that they get attached to me, that's par for the course, it's when they see me four or five times then decide we're friends or in a D/s relationship and they don't need to pay any more. WRONG. I am the one who decides if I want to take on another sub, it's not for a client to dictate this to me. If he does - he's gone - because he's shown his colours and doesn't get it.