WGs and relationships

[sarahxxx]

But ofcourse she stop with escorting 15 years ago...

2. Is she happy for him to carry on visiting other girls and maybe go off with them? After all, he must be irresistible as she fancies him...

And why are you assuming that he must be irresistible for the escort girl to fall in love with him lol Do you girls have some high standards ?

It was actually more of a "tongue In Cheek" joke, I have a friend who's partner is always telling her how all the girls chat him up everytime he is out and she thinks he is a real hunk and that every girl fancies him. Now personally, I am not into Gnomes, but if I was he would sit well in my garden...



The point was that if the girl fell for the guy then she would think others would too, regardless of the "truth".

Sarah x x x

[Archer33]

Yea i think he did pay for her time in the beginning...

[Trinity-Belle]

A guy I know has a sister who says that her husbands aunty had a friend who knew someone who.....

[curvy crumpet]

I was in a 14 month on/off relationship with a client, biggest mistake of my life. Works for some and does not work for others. One conclusion i have come too is that there is no way I can have a normal healthy relationship while being an escort, just my opinion.

[sarahxxx]

I was in a 14 month on/off relationship with a client, biggest mistake of my life. Works for some and does not work for others. One conclusion i have come too is that there is no way I can have a normal healthy relationship while being an escort, just my opinion.

Can I ask please, as these are the questions / problems that I feel people that are looking to get into that situation should be aware of

1. Was he happy with you continuing to work?
2. Did he carry on seeing other working girls?

Did you discuss the above?

I realise that all relationships are different and what is allowed by one couple is seen as terrible by others, this also applies in "normal" relationships (Whatever that means?) I have been in a relationship for 20+years and it has not always been easy but as long as you both enjoy and want the same things in life it can work.

1. My partner is happy with me working but then he is a perv and we also have been swinging since we first met, I am not so sure about sharing him but he seems to prefer watching me with others when we are swinging rather than chasing other women.

2. Although my partner has never been my client as we met before I started working, he has always dabbled and still does. Am I happy about it? not greatly, but I do not get upset about it. I know what he likes and what he is into, he has no interest in the girl herself and just wants to have sex with her, usually young 20-something blondes. He is more than happy to just have the 15 minute quickie, so I know it is meaningless sex. He usually tells me after the event, so I would be more upset if I found out he had and did not say anything.

Sarah x x x

[Trinity-Belle]

... a load of sensible stuff...

That is a fantastic post Sarah! Really sound.

I think that it takes a certain kind of girl to be able to hold down a relationship while she is working. I'm not sure that I could. And I think it takes a certain kind of guy to be able to accept what his partner does for a living.

Those two things alone are pretty big asks, but I know so many girls who are in relationships or even married that it does seem eminently doable.

But when you add the client/escort dynamic into the mix is suddenly gets a whole heap more complicated.

I'm not saying it is impossible... I do know a few girls who are dating ex-clients, but only a small handful. I know far more girls who have had tempestuous, short lived, failed relationships with ex-clients!

Love that fact that your hubby is open with you, and that you are accepting of his dalliances, even if begrudgingly so. It may seem hard to fathom because of what we do for a living, but most working girls would not be happy for their partner to be off seeing other girls, working or otherwise. I know I wouldn't. I would like to think that I could be all cool about it, but I know myself too well and I know that the green eyed monster would get the better of me... especially if he was seeing the same girl repeatedly.

[rodtheman37]

Last year I went out with this girl who was my girifriend and she was an escort girl. To cut a long story short I never once had to pay for sex with her. Met her as I saw her friend as an escort.

[ultradian]

Oh it can work i have been with mine for 2 yrs getting married in July