no taboo ageplay etc its just wrong please stop it AW

[Trinity-Belle]

This is also better put in the webcam pvt site

Shit... now I've done it!

Admin... if this is staying public then can you please, please remove my previous post....

I'd never had written all of that if I had appreciated that this was the public area... I'm such a ditz!

Sorry!

[lara]

Lots of us enjoy exploring taboo fantasy and fetish, and it doesn't mean we're out there doing it. Geez I'd be locked up if anyone thought I was really into eating human flesh and crunching tiny man bones

..... Lol : )

[Trinity-Belle]

Lots of us enjoy exploring taboo fantasy and fetish, and it doesn't mean we're out there doing it. Geez I'd be locked up if anyone thought I was really into eating human flesh and crunching tiny man bones

For sure.

We all have our limits, and age play is mine.

But heaven knows I do plenty of other things which some other people might find horrific!

Never do anything you don't feel comfortable with.

But at the same time, while it's okay to say what you won't do and why you won't do it, no matter what you think it's not okay to try to impose your own sense of right and wrong on other girls.

For what it's worth, my view is pretty well in line with most other girls on here, including Katie's, that the vast, vast majority of men indulging in this sort of fantasy chat are doing just that... getting their rocks off in what is, to be honest, a fairly harmless way.

What bothers me is the tiny, tiny number of guys for whom that is not the case.

I guess we need to take my attitude in context though... I'm meeting guys in real life... I don't have a "kick" button! lol.

[sarahxxx]

But at the same time, while it's okay to say what you won't do and why you won't do it, no matter what you think it's not okay to try to impose your own sense of right and wrong on other girls.

I will second that....

There are many people on adult forums that do "moralise" on the rights and wrongs of others. The truth is that very few punters, escorts or webcam workers would be brave enough to own up to friends, families or neighbours about what they get up to.

"What I do is wrong but it is not as bad as what you do".

Sarah x x x

[girtonqueen]

I'm going to stick my neck out here!
As a guy It seems strange female respondents to this issue get riled up about a man's sexual appetite for a women in the role of an underage girl.
It 'aint in the same ball park as the real thing and WON'T LEAD TO THIS!

I and many men like the idea of this GAME with an ADULT women. On the other hand abusing an under age girls is abhorrent and has no appeal - IT'S A GAME. Men are attracted to the vulnerability of women and like to see them in the role of POOR LITTLE ANGELS (What fools we are).

The reason PERVERTS want to abuse children is because they aren't able to express themselves with an adult female AND WOULDN'T WANT TO ACT THIS ROLE OUT with a grown up mature woman.

Please don't bag these two DIFFER[/size][/font]ENT needs together

[curlytots]

Thing is, the entitled post 'no taboo ageplay etc its just wrong please stop it AW'

How would AW stop it even if they wanted to? It'd be impossible to police... And is that the kind of atmosphere we want to work under, can't say x y or z without fear of reprisal?

I'm of the opinion, as long as it is 'fantasy' then who cares. We're getting paid for it... If you don't want to do it, don't do it.

[kitty]

Hello

Took a break from camming altogether and first day back on the forum and I see this. Here we go...

I'm pretty damn flat chested, I attract the ageplay crowd and that's how I make my living. I admit, sometimes I think to myself what the fuck am I doing with my life (the exact reason I took a two week break). I personally find a vast majority of these guys harmless, they have some taboo fantasies... what can they do?! A lot of ladies have rape and control fantasies, doesn't mean they go out looking to get raped. The human mind is fascinating, when you add sex & taboo into the mix... I almost went into psychology for this reason.

The problem is, in my opinion, that it IS a taboo. It's a dark seedy forbidden thing, it shouldn't be talked about and that's what attracts most of these guys. They like to think they're pushing the boundaries, they enjoy knowing they're into something that they SHOULDN'T.

If they're talking to me, they know I'm not whatever age they want, they know it's a fantasy and that it's a "safe place" to discuss whatever they like. Usually the number is what they get off on, and the number (age) relates to how far they think they're pushing things. It's not because they have a thing for children/teens aged xxx it's because in their mind that's a fucked up as they feel they can go.

I get A LOT of guys trying to shock me, and when I don't even bat an eyelid they move on to the next girl to try and shock them.

Personally, as I've said before I get off on acting innocent and playing the taboo roles, and it was hard to come to terms with this. My current boyfriend isn't into any roleplay scenarios, I accept that, I do all my playing on cam with like-minded people instead. In that sense I sympathize, these guys can't even tell their partners/wives what really gets them going because they're afraid to be branded a sick twisted pervert. Some of these guys have children, and they feel guilty that they come view camgirls etc, but the guilt feeds into the fantasy even more. In previous relationships I have done taboo roleplay in the bedroom, not for one second did I think that my boyfriend would have seduced his sister (if he had one) or gone out and bribed schoolgirls into doing sexual acts. I like edge play, doesn't mean I'd get off on some psycho holding me hostage and threatening me with knives and guns, choking me, or raping me.

If I'm providing an outlet for these guys, so be it. I know it's not a popular frame of mind, if I ever explained this to anyone in real life I wouldn't expect to be accepted for what I do. If they're at home, in front of their PC talking to someone who is clearly of legal age of consent then I call that fair game. I don't think I'd ever become such an obsession that they want to try "the real thing". You have to give these guys some credit, they're not idiots, they know we're 18+, if they wanted the real deal then it's only a few clicks away.

I logged on tonight and the first thing I got asked was "Do you do ageplay?" all the guy wanted was to look at my ass whilst I was dressed as a schoolgirl. Most kids see more risque shit on MTV for fucks sake!

I have a daughter, I do worry (as any parent would) about her safety in this regard, but I don't think banning talking about taboo subjects would save her from abuse if heaven forbid anybody ever tried. What would work? Supervision, education, and openness. I won't lie to her, I won't tell her the world is all sunshine and rainbows. She's never unsupervised, and I wouldn't ever leave her alone with anyone I don't trust wholeheartedly. Just the other day on the playground at school I heard a mother say...

"Oh well my new bloke, he's real good with the kids, always wanting to spend time with them. He offered to babysit whenever so I'm going out on Friday"

THAT is the terrifying shit. A young mother in my extended family recently caught her "good with kids" boyfriend assaulting her 4 year old. I'm not saying all guys who like kids are perverts, but why the hell would you let your "new bloke" look after your children?!?! The guys who WANT to abuse children WILL find a way. Adultwork isn't the place to be looking, the clue is in the bloody name! ADULTwork.

[curlytots]

Above post says it all really, better than I did!

As sex workers, better than anyone we need to accept the reality of sex-work (which you're involved in), and understand how people tick, like Kitty says, the psychology. That for me seems to be the secret of the success to it also... If we blind ourselves to peoples' secret fetishisms and desires, we're essentially denying business, and money... I'll probably get some flack for saying that, but so be it.

[Trinity-Belle]

The problem is, in my opinion, that it IS a taboo. It's a dark seedy forbidden thing, it shouldn't be talked about and that's what attracts most of these guys. They like to think they're pushing the boundaries, they enjoy knowing they're into something that they SHOULDN'T.

My entire business model exists on this very principal.... TS is still taboo.

Most guys, I think, fantasise about going with a t-girl, but they would be unlikely to chat about it with their mates down the pub! And the very fact that it is taboo is, for a lot of guys, the essence of the "thrill".

[Trinity-Belle]

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