Orgasms with clients...

[DivineMissG]

As stated there are unfortunately some clients out there who just do not push the right buttons no matter how much you try and direct them. There are clients out there who assume we all like to be fucked like a pornstar who likes to thrust their fingers so far up your fanny not considering what damage they are doing no matter how much you protest. Do you know how often a client actually bites down on my clit and pulls it up, can you imagine the pain that i have to go through and even after shrieking and mentioning that it hurts they continue to do so as they feel that they have paid for our time and for the opportunity to do these things to us.

hence why i also do not offer A levels to first time clients as you can not just go charging in there like a bull in a china shop.

Gentlemen these things need to be considered and as embarrassed as i am to say this that there is the rare occassion where you have to fake it as no matter how much you try and show or teach certain types of clients they are not interested in knowing. you can not always guarantee a female orgasm the only way my clients know that i am enjoying it is by how wet i get and my yawns afterwards believe it or not i tend to want to sleep after good sex.

I'm usually asleep before my fiancee...

[English Kate]

Its surprising how everyone is so different, ive known only 3 girls, out of about 55 ive ever been with, who orgasm genuinely very easily and frequently, as in - i dont need to do anything what so ever other than sit/lay back and maintain an erection for them to get off with. Feels great without a condom too, can feel her juices dribble out around my cocks length while shes fucking me, its like wow she is SO turned on!

Or like when shes going really fast/hard and grinding back and forth causing me to climax, trying to hold it back SO much while shes saying shes almost there, then pop... (o shit!) thinking for her to please orgasm quick before it starts going soft. She orgasms, GOOOAL!!! lol. Love those moments.

With many girls though, it seems impossible to get them to orgasm.

Tom are you saying that you do bareback with Escorts?

[Tom30]

Tom are you saying that you do bareback with Escorts?

Nope

[English Kate]

Tom are you saying that you do bareback with Escorts?

Nope

Perhaps not the best thread to talk about having bareback sex then. You can see how that can be misconstrude I hope?

[Tom30]

Im not talking about bareback sex. I made a comment about it relating to the topic of discussion.

[English Kate]

Im not talking about bareback sex. I made a comment about it relating to the topic of discussion.

I'm not saying this to be difficult or paint you in a bad light, but what you should remember is that Escorts do read these very public threads and if I am able to misconstrude your words to mean you enjoy BB sex with escorts then so can others and you may find yourself being black listed for something you don't actually do.

Please just think before you type and make sure that your message is clear and shows that the bareback you are talking about is not with people you don't know or are not in a long term relationship with.

Quite frankly I don't give a toss what you do with your life, but I'm sure you don't want other people to judge you incorrectly, especially if one of them turns out to be an Escort that you would like to see and as a consequence of threads like this has black listed you!

[Freddo]

I read the first bit as BB too

[Tom30]

Before i posted, people were mentioning both clients and non-clients, not just clients/escorts. Hence i mentioned how nicer it is while BB. So that wasnt grasped? then im sorry i appologise.

Im not one for going into unnecessary detail of everything thoroughly just for the people who are used to speaking/reading politically correct all the time. Theyve yet to learn to perceive/interpet in more ways than one of what people could be saying by reading what has already been said by other people. Not everyone reads exactly like the other person and of true english literature which many people didnt get an A level in.

Ive had 14 years of these forums and chat rooms, back when ppl used to spk with as lil n short msgs as poss - from the days when lol brb afk lmao style messages were created. That is until the non-savvy probably highly educated types started coming online saying they cant read (text?) speak. ive learnt to adjust and interpet messages in more ways than one, ive also had years of learning to perceive what European/Russians try to say in chat who struggle somewhat with their english. All in all its why you never see me argue or make a big deal out of someones social flaw.

I am far too open minded Kate, seems that is my flaw. I should be like some other people who are to some extent constantly bitching and moaning in one way or another about absolutely anything, that is what some people are like - its their way of socialising, but not for me. Im chilled out, i take what people say on a whim, i dont go all-out serious on anyone. Shame that not more people are like that, the world would be a lot nicer place.

You cant right the wrongs of the world Kate, get used to it. Just 'empaphise, adapt, overcome' instead of sticking to your guns of what you already know trying to educate others on something who have already been there done that a tireless amount of times to the point it gets really really boring.

[davidseven]

Sorry Tom, I have just read this thread from start to finish I cant find anyone else referencing civilian sex, except MrSmith.
MrSmith wrote; "I would be disappointed if I didn't make a woman orgasm... (whether I was paying or not)"
And certainly no one else mentioned BB.

I agree with Kate and Freddo.
Given the thread title is Orgasms with clients, anyone catching your statement;
"Feels great without a condom too,"
Is going to think you mean with an escort. The ambiguity is yours

As Kate was only bringing this to your attention to highlight what people are likely to think, reading your post in relation to the title. You do her a great disservice, with such a display of hubris and bad manners.

[Tom30]

Sorry Tom, I have just read this thread from start to finish I cant find anyone else referencing civilian sex, except MrSmith.

This is a place of discussion for people to socialise, did you know that the art of discussion is also driven by people talking about other variables as well? It makes socialising more interesting, its how people socialise.
There is a difference between going off-topic, and merely adding a comment within the on-topic message. Obviously no one here enjoys bareback sex what so ever. I was talking about orgasms in general and of ways that makes orgasms more intimate.

Seems if you dont stay 200% on topic on this forum you will get told off about it like a bunch of school yard kids. Friendly bunch arnt we.

I've tried to guide clients AND men I've slept with in the past if they weren't really pressing my buttons...

No BF nor ex punters get me goin like my Wand does!

Yeah, its ok for missG and heather to bring in non-punting related comments.
Bullying springs to mind. And im the one a moderator who is also a parent slates me as being juevenile. Good on ya, really.