Confirmation

[English Kate]

Guys, do you consider confirmation is to let the Escort no either way if you are still intending to attend a booking or do you only confirm if you are definitely going?

Ladies, do you state a time to confirm, or happy to accept confirmation any time the morning of, even if the booking itself is in the morning?

This is something I find I get really annoyed about. I find that a lot of guys who say they will confirm on the day, only do so if they are actually intending to keep it. For some reason it does not enter their heads to tell you if they don't want to, despite the fact they know you work away from home, or will have to get there early to keep the arrangement.

I had a booking for 10.30am this morning. It was made yesterday. He said he would confirm in the morning, but in order for me to get here and be ready I had to leave my home just after 9am. Needless to say he did not keep the booking and did not confirm either way. I have sent him a text thanking him for ruining my bank holiday lie in and being to thoughtful, so I doubt he will darken my door, but quite frankly I don't care, I hate it when men do this.

What is wrong with a bit of simple courtesy? We are people and we do have lives.

[abcdef]

ditto kate, takes me around 45 mins ro get here then i like to have a shower so hate it if its a wasted journey

[kenny m]

There is something called courtesay, and I think it should be given to everyone, it is good manners to either send an e-mail or phone saying when the guy is setting off, as it does mean that the booking is ok, as sometimes when the booking is madfe a few dyas previous, a few things can happen to postpone it.

There is nothing worse than to have a booking and looking forward to it, only to have the other person not inform you of their intention.

If the person does not have the guts to say sorry but this has come up. it makes you mad to think it goes on.

[English Kate]

I used to give people the benefit of the doubt, but I don't any more. Once bitten and they're black listed with me. This one actually lives in my area, so no excuse. He wanted to meet yesterday and I wasn't working, so my guess is he got what he wanted yesterday and had ample time to cancel with me.

No loss for me to ignore his calls in the future in my eyes.

[kenny m]

I hate it, there is usually no excuese to not give someone a few seconds post to say they had to cancel.

I have heard on forums about people sending others on a goose chase, and that is just stupid, who would take a booking from someone with that sort of attitude.

I first came across it from an escort who said on a forum that they thought it was funny to send a guy to the wrong hotel, and had the nerve to post what she had did and laugh about it.

Sadly it is more common than we think that people cant be bothered to say when they cancel.

[Tom30]

I always stick to the plan.
Once a confirmation time/date has been agreed by both of you, and if she gave me the address straight away (which is often not the case), i always turn up on time or punctual without even need to call or anything. I think theres only been one time that ive been late which ive stayed in good contact with her when i realised id be late, and that was because of heavy traffic and like 100 miles of driving.

[English Kate]

It doesn't hurt just to call in the morning and let her know you are still intending to meet though Tom. You might find yourself in a double booking situation otherwise if you have never seen her before, as she might assume you are not coming.

It is good to here that you are reliable though.

[Emily of Halifax]

I always ask the guy to ring to confirm before setting of on his journey not just for my sake but also his there have been occasions in the past where things have cropped up at my end and I have had to cancel but for obvious reasons I would not ring him as you never no who the client is with wife girlfriend etc so if they had not contacted me they would have had a wasted journey

[English Kate]

I always ask the guy to ring to confirm before setting of on his journey not just for my sake but also his there have been occasions in the past where things have cropped up at my end and I have had to cancel but for obvious reasons I would not ring him as you never no who the client is with wife girlfriend etc so if they had not contacted me they would have had a wasted journey

I guess that can work if they are travelling any distance, but still not much help if the live within a 20 minute radius, as most people do if they are local to me.

I think I may need to adjust my profile and write a blog and make it known that anyone who does not offer me some kind of confirmation before hand is going to get black listed. It doesn't matter so much when you live at home, past the inconvenience of time wasted, but when you rent some where to use, there are expenses involved as well.

[Emily of Halifax]

I always ask the guy to ring to confirm before setting of on his journey not just for my sake but also his there have been occasions in the past where things have cropped up at my end and I have had to cancel but for obvious reasons I would not ring him as you never no who the client is with wife girlfriend etc so if they had not contacted me they would have had a wasted journey

I guess that can work if they are travelling any distance, but still not much help if the live within a 20 minute radius, as most people do if they are local to me.

I think I may need to adjust my profile and write a blog and make it known that anyone who does not offer me some kind of confirmation before hand is going to get black listed. It doesn't matter so much when you live at home, past the inconvenience of time wasted, but when you rent some where to use, there are expenses involved as well.

To be honest Kate there will always be the guys that no matter how many times you tell them it wont sink in I tell guys not to park near my place as I dont want attention drawn to cars coming and going so what do they do park outside my next door neighbours