punting is not dating!

[tinkerbell]

so ive seen a client today, young guy about 27 ish

he came in, very polite, very clean he stayed for half an hour,

the booking was drawing to a close, and he kept goign on abotu what i was doing later, wha i had booked how long it would take me

then he pipes up, " what time do you finish tonight?"

i replied "im booked untill 11 i have a 3 hr booking in Worcester"

"how about i come pick you up and take you for dinner?"

i replied jokingly "wow you want 2 bookings in one day arnt you a big boy hehe"

"no i wanna take you on a date, i dont wanna pay,....i recon i would be a brilliant boyfriend, i already know what you like in bed i made you cum didnt i?,... and you know what im like"

now, apart from this boy paying me to be with him...i had to fake the thing anyway as his technique was closer to de-scaling a fish then anything close to being a turn on

i politley said "im sorry but i really dont get involved with clients as i keep personal and business seperate"

and he wouldnt leave it alone,...he was almost begging me for a date when i said

" no im sorry im really not going to go on a date with you as im not prepared to see a client"

then asking him if he had all of his belonging before i let him out he then came back with

"whats your problem?....im not an old man you know,....one date wont hurt"

"it will hurt, because ill have been on bookings all day, ill want to go home to my bed, i want a nice shower and to relax, im sorry but its not going to happen,...ever at all im afraid i dont get involved with clients"

he just laughed and i showed him out

what else could i say? lol he could be some sort of bloody psycho for all i know picking me up and taking me into the woods to de-skin my body!

punter-escort love whats your opinions?

[SassyAnn]

I'll get back to you on this one. I'm just getting ready for a hunky, gorgeous client who is auditioning to be my boyfriend.

[Emily of Halifax]

It has worked for some girls that I know another forum that I am on on of the girls married a client earlier on this year and another lady is planning her wedding to a client.

Not for me though I have been asked out loads of times I just politely say I dont think hubby would be very impressed do you

Maybe invent yourself a ficticious boyfriend

[tinkerbell]

lol ive got one but i dont wanna share everything about with me with some bloke whos paying to fuck me,.....sorry to be blunt but thats exactly the way it is,....

lol sassy ann you devil

[monty69]

They dont give up do they Tink? You seem to get more than your fair share of prats who wont listen to you. I have been on meets with ladies that I have really fancied and would love to have had a relationship with but, as is blindingly obvious, would you have met in any other scenario (probably not), would you be happy with them carrying on their work (probably not) and most importantly do you really think that they think you are the One! (most likely not!)

It is different for different people but certainly from what you have said Tink, business is business and personal life is separate. Mind you, to a degree, it might be flattering to be asked, just as long as they dont persist!

[Freddo]

I agree Tink, You should keep your personnal life seperate but even if you did not have a other half it would be a polite way of telling him to get lost and it might stop a few of your nutters coming on to you.

I have meet a few ladies that I have become good friends with and still are but I no longer pay them for there company and I no longer expect anything from them.

I have also meet ladies that I fancy like mad but know they would walk past me without a second glance in reality

[tinkerbell]

well i do find it flattering and very sweet, but going on and on about it really anoyes me! i mean respect me to take my answer for christ sake,...

[abcdef]

just stick to your word, u should have came back with i'll ask my bf to join us

[Freddo]

well i do find it flattering and very sweet, but going on and on about it really anoyes me! i mean respect me to take my answer for christ sake,...

He does strike me as someone without much experience and he was obviously very flattered about the attention you paid him.
Even though he was paying you to treat him that way
He did go on a bit

[iluvjem]

punter-escort love whats your opinions?

I think you're scenario is very different from "punter - escort love" as it was purely a one sided assumption by him that he'd be a good boyfriend and you would want to date him. I dont think I would take that as a compliment more just plain rude for him to make such an assumption that 30 minutes with him and thats you hooked!! Even worse when they beg..oh dear lol

I get it more on the webcam side of things, guy tell me they'd love to be my boyfriend and telling me I'd like them because they're "good looking". Never seems to occur to them that I am an alternative girl living in a very alternative world and might in fact prefer alternative boys! Beside the fact someone who feels the need to tell you they're good looking is quite an ugly characteristc in my opinion

I really believe it's just all fantasy to them and they really haven't thought the realities through. I wonder how many other escorts who are in relationships have punters say things like "wow thats so cool he's so lucky to be dating an escort I'd love that"..really? would you really??

and yes I still get boyfriend propositions despite the fact im quite openly married...