Found out my girlfriend is an escort...don't know what to do.

[Gone]

I was going to say similar Ana, or as you know the cuck fantasy can manifest in odd ways, it reads more like a bloke playing out a roleplay in his head than a genuine heartbroken guy looking for answers. This is surely the last place you'd come for advice on finding out your girlfriend is an escort...

[lucyloo]

There was a thread very similar to this not too long ago... coincidence? Perhaps.

On the chance this is genuine....

You understandably feel deceived that she chose to take up this line of work without consulting you in her decision. But she has told you now and it is your choice really what happens next. I'm afraid it is as simple as has been previously said. Accept her new job and support her or if you can't get your head around it, move on.

There is no being unreasonable about any of it. It's all a matter of what works (or doesn't) for you in a relationship. The answer to those questions will be different for everyone.

Personally it is her you should be talking to, not a post on any website.

[Ana_X]

Quick bit of googling shows this is the same guy from a while back, the last story was he's a student and wants her to quit being an escort but can't afford to support her, blah blah blah.

Oh, and he's a cam boy. pmsl

[lucyloo]

Quick bit of googling shows this is the same guy from a while back, the last story was he's a student and wants her to quit being an escort but can't afford to support her, blah blah blah.

Oh, and he's a cam boy. pmsl

Mmmmm. I'm saying nothing LOL

[Randomguy993]

Ok. Yes that is me. I am genuine though. My girlfriend really is an escort and I used to struggle big time with it at first. Then we managed to balance it in a way that made it comfortable, and we have been great for a long time without it having any effect on our relationship. 2 weeks ago though she did join an agency and now instead of her working from her own rented place and being her own boss which I was cool with, she is now being sent to random guys addresses for entire evening, often staying overnight, and going out with guys for meals and drinks. I really do have a problem with this.

[Ana_X]

So leave her.

[MsClara_Wilde]

And what advice do you think we're going to give you? Does this look like the agony aunt column?

If you are genuine, I find it disloyal of YOU to be on here talking to multiple sex workers about HER life choices. Also as Cece questioned, how on earth did you even find this forum? I very much doubt it has anything to do with you being a cam boy and more so that you go on to AW to satisfy your own needs which of course is on par with being a twat waffle given the fact you're putting someone else down for not being honest.

Do you know how many idiots we deal with day in and day out looking attention and/or drama? You're like the advertisement for that digital blue clear pregnancy test. Everyone's seen it enough times on Youtube waiting for a video to load that it could be recited by heart.

This is not the place for empathy over another independent sex worker nor is it the place to try and get attention by attempting to wipe our eyes.

[Randomguy993]

And what advice do you think we're going to give you? Does this look like the agony aunt column?

If you are genuine, I find it disloyal of YOU to be on here talking to multiple sex workers about HER life choices. Also as Cece questioned, how on earth did you even find this forum? I very much doubt it has anything to do with you being a cam boy and more so that you go on to AW to satisfy your own needs which of course is on par with being a twat waffle given the fact you're putting someone else down for not being honest.

Do you know how many idiots we deal with day in and day out looking attention and/or drama? You're like the advertisement for that digital blue clear pregnancy test. Everyone's seen it enough times on Youtube waiting for a video to load that it could be recited by heart.

This is not the place for empathy over another independent sex worker nor is it the place to try and get attention by attempting to wipe our eyes.

Wow. Words cannot describe what a fucking twat you are. Are you people really that fucking deluded???? Its disloyal of me to ask for advice about my partner? Disloyal of ME??? GO fuck yourself you delusional piece of shit. How the fuck can you incite me for disloyalty and act like I am the wrong one.

I think I get it, you are probably all fucking man haters and your work has given you a very messed up, delusional view of men, relationships and general life. I'd love to see your response if the gender was reversed and it was girl asking for advice about her boyfriend. Get a real perspective you fucking moron.

[Ana_X]

And what advice do you think we're going to give you? Does this look like the agony aunt column?

If you are genuine, I find it disloyal of YOU to be on here talking to multiple sex workers about HER life choices. Also as Cece questioned, how on earth did you even find this forum? I very much doubt it has anything to do with you being a cam boy and more so that you go on to AW to satisfy your own needs which of course is on par with being a twat waffle given the fact you're putting someone else down for not being honest.

Do you know how many idiots we deal with day in and day out looking attention and/or drama? You're like the advertisement for that digital blue clear pregnancy test. Everyone's seen it enough times on Youtube waiting for a video to load that it could be recited by heart.

This is not the place for empathy over another independent sex worker nor is it the place to try and get attention by attempting to wipe our eyes.

Wow. Words cannot describe what a fucking twat you are. Are you people really that fucking deluded???? Its disloyal of me to ask for advice about my partner? Disloyal of ME??? GO fuck yourself you delusional piece of shit. How the fuck can you incite me for disloyalty and act like I am the wrong one.

I think I get it, you are probably all fucking man haters and your work has given you a very messed up, delusional view of men, relationships and general life. I'd love to see your response if the gender was reversed and it was girl asking for advice about her boyfriend. Get a real perspective you fucking moron.

You should be saying all this to your partner, and a therapist, because blowing up like that to people who are just giving it to you straight having heard similar stories throughout the duration of our careers aint ok. 

So you're fine with her being an escort, despite the opening title of the thread, and elsewhere online you give them the same spiel but call her an 'escort/prostitute'.... conveniently not telling them that you're well aware she sells sex already. You're fishing for attention. Quit it.

Also, what's with dunking your balls in a pint of cola btw? lol

[MsClara_Wilde]

Well, that's the rattle thrown out of the pram.

I like how you have avoided the question of why you are on an adult services forum asking about your situation TWICE.

Being a dick isn't going to make yours any bigger sunshine.