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Question for the guys - Emily of Halifax - 01-07-2011
Would you say your punting is an addiction, if it is then how do you control it.
RE: Question for the guys - Hicky - 01-07-2011
It can be - but we all have different personalities and some people have more addictive personalities than others. Personally I have always enjoyed the challenge of not doing something I like just to prove I can which I suspect demonstrates my personality is not that addictive. The ability to do that and university fees place enough constrants on me!
RE: Question for the guys - TheJackRabbit - 02-07-2011
I find it can become very addictive if you visit the same girl, and build up a friendship.
RE: Question for the guys - abcdef - 02-07-2011
welcome to the forum JR
RE: Question for the guys - Pan - 02-07-2011
I used to punt for the rush and the adrenaline dumped into my system from turning up at a new place every time (though I have had many regulars) for easy random sex with a stranger. A quick fuck lasting an hour at most. In those early days, yes, it was somewhat of an addiction
Nowadays, nine times out of ten I visit two divine regular ladies, who I have been lucky to find.. I prize these two ladies so highly as they offer me mental stimulation to the same level as the sexual.
I am stressful by nature, a highly strung individual and since getting into fitness seriously, I have learnt the need to control my cortisol levels. The individuals I escape to, completely de-stress me. Away from real life, time in their company is me time, worries put aside and peace ensues. The nature of the encounter means that you can talk about it with very few people, face to face, if any? I often find that escorts also find this type of conversation very satisfying and cathartic. This is why I never book less than two hours and more often than not the average is three.
Far from the days of addiction, this therapy of a kind, is what I have come to appreciate as the benefit and importance of escorting to me.
Not that there aren't those days when I do just want a damn good fuck, kinky and depraved as I can be at times.
RE: Question for the guys - English Kate - 02-07-2011
(02-07-2011, 06:04)Pan Wrote: I used to punt for the rush and the adrenaline dumped into my system from turning up at a new place every time (though I have had many regulars) for easy random sex with a stranger. A quick fuck lasting an hour at most. In those early days, yes, it was somewhat of an addiction
Nowadays, nine times out of ten I visit two divine regular ladies, who I have been lucky to find.. I prize these two ladies so highly as they offer me mental stimulation to the same level as the sexual.
I am stressful by nature, a highly strung individual and since getting into fitness seriously, I have learnt the need to control my cortisol levels. The individuals I escape to, completely de-stress me. Away from real life, time in their company is me time, worries put aside and peace ensues. The nature of the encounter means that you can talk about it with very few people, face to face, if any? I often find that escorts also find this type of conversation very satisfying and cathartic. This is why I never book less than two hours and more often than not the average is three.
Far from the days of addiction, this therapy of a kind, is what I have come to appreciate as the benefit and importance of escorting to me.
Not that there aren't those days when I do just want a damn good fuck, kinky and depraved as I can be at times.
Pan, you are exactly the kind of client that I seem to attract, which I have to admit is also exactly the way I like it. I love the mental stimulation as much as the physical and feel like I am learning so much from the conversations I have been having, be it to understand men a little better or how the economy works.
I love pampering too and the cuddles and stroking my hands through hair as we talk and come down from the sex. The job is fulfilling in so many ways and it is lovely to know that it's not just physical but helping with well being too. There is a lot of job satisfaction to be had from Escorting.
Having said that, it is also nice to get banged now and again lol. Variety is the spice of life!
RE: Question for the guys - SassyAnn - 02-07-2011
Pan, those two ladies sound perfect and extremely lucky! I'm not jealous, honest.
RE: Question for the guys - Pan - 02-07-2011
Rest assured Kate and Shy, I have no doubt you do a lot more for your clients than just sex if your writing and apparent understanding of the care that some men who seek your services need.
I frequently travel up north and am sure a detour will have to be on the cards to see you both at some point, unless like Lolo, you plan to visit KENT?
RE: Question for the guys - English Kate - 02-07-2011
Nearest we're getting for the moment is Heathrow lol. I think I'm the closest to you on the map, but still over 100 miles away.
RE: Question for the guys - Pan - 02-07-2011
Work in London too, quick trip in the Heathrow Express would do nicely!